Do you believe that money is everything? Is it true that if we don't have this there's no joy in life? We can't buy happiness from money for sure but we can buy something to make us happy. It's hard to laugh if we're hungry. It's normal to cry if we didn't know how to solve money matters. But should we be chained ourselves because of being pressure to earn?
Many people changed because of money. Their behaviours and their lifestyle became different. They're acting like a different person just because of this money. Some of them became desperate. They almost forgot that they have other responsibilities because of being busy to earn. I'm talking about the two types of effects of money.
GREEDY
They never think anything but to earn more. The lifestyles they're having changes. They want to have that pretty house, they want to have that many cars, they want to be surrounded by rich people like them. They're forgetting their time for families because they focus on getting richer. They started ignoring what is family means because of the thoughts that money is everything. If they will have more money, all of them will be happy including their families.
SELFISH
People who are not lucky having a good status in life became selfish. The desperation just to earn money will make them a bad person. They will do anything just to earn. The crimes, shame and dignity are being eaten. They don't care for these as long as they have something to feed to their stomachs and families. Although their methods are different because they thought that they don't have something to do but only those.
The burden will make someone unhappy for sure. It's true that they're wearing that smile to everyone. They thought that they're happy because they're doing something that they dreamed of. But as time passes by with this kind of mindset in the long run. They will regret it because the people they love having a gap to each other.
If people will only think about the money their way of thinking changes. They think that by buying that car will make them happy. They think that it's okay not to be happy as long as they can have what they wanted. Simply because they let themselves be devoured. Instead of living simply and try another way. They chose that way because they thought these were the important things in the world.
I saw many families broken because of this. There was no blood-related treatment because of no time to each other. On the other hand, other families disbanded because some were imprisoned or couldn't take the shame. That's why don't wait for it to come. The secret of not feeling the heaviness of this burden is acceptance. Be contented of something is one of the keys as well. Never let money dictate what to do in our lives. Not enough money can make someone keep on smiling. The love for each other is important. There are many things that can be done as long as someone will not feel alone. That burden can be lighter if you carry it with many people. Money is just a tool and we can live without it.
thank you for reading
d' dreamboy,
