When you start to chase your dreams, nothing will seem to be a problem on the way to achieving them. You are gonna face difficulties one after another but need to pass through them. And some people are doing this struggle pretty well, all we need is strong willpower and dedication. With these two virtues, we can achieve anything we want to.
Unfortunately, my exams surprised me by the sudden entry and fortunately, they are finished. First bench experience wasn't too pleasant for me but yeah, everything went smoothly. Overall that was a pleasant one after the long gap of the Covid pandemic. So the topic was something I experienced in my exam hall. Few days ago I got to hear the crying sound of a baby from the other room. I didn't pay much attention to that, focused back on the struggles of my first bench. Today I heard the same sound again and this time I looked outside through the window. Maybe she will be one of my batchmates and that's her child. She is attending the final exams while carrying her child with her.
I saw her leaving the building and going for a walk around. She was trying to calm her baby without the disturbance to all the other examinees from her baby's crying. I don't think this is a normal scenario for a girl attending her exams while carrying her baby and that too trying to care when crying. I think that baby doesn't know how to stay without its mother and that's why she had to carry it to the exams hall too, even though the exams are four hours long. While running after her dreams she didn't compromise with her responsibility ignoring the disturbance she might face while writing papers.
Many would sacrifice their dreams by compromising with the situation. Not everyone dares to bear both sides of the situation are odd. She is married and also has a baby so there was an easy option for her to sacrifice the dreams for the sake of her baby. But she has chosen to struggle, to achieve her dreams of being well educated, without compromising or hampering her responsibility. That's what amazed me the most yesterday, I can call these girls a fighter without any hesitation.
I like this approach or spirit, whatever you call it, that people do stick no matter what the odds are. This is life, everything won't be going smoothly for everyone every time. Sometimes compromises are welcomed if that is for the betterment of something yet more important than that and sometimes it's also fine to go with the dreams with proper dedication so that you don't have to regret them later.
So this is all about the fighter I got a glance at yesterday, and I do have a vast amount of respect for these fighters and the realization I got is way more precious.