Love is one of the most celebrated feelings in our generation. Each time I come online, it's either a lady is talking about a heartbreak or a guy is feeling jealous of a relationship or someone misses his ex, I feel reflective of this. Still, at first I never believed in love, but it's real. But only a few people experience this, while others experience attachment. That's why it's easier for some people to forget someone they were together with, while it's hard for others.
I have been reading old books, and trust me, love is lasting; some writers can even stay years just to wait for their lover. Th⁷is is real love. I once read a book and she said she waited 8 years no voice no call just went to where they always met every day thinking he would be there, i felt it deep, in this our generation love like this is rare, most people tend to mistake attachment for love, Love is enduring, it's longer than we think. Attachment is like when you're used to communicating with someone you communicate with every day, but just ended because of something. Most people mistake attachment for love, love never forgets or lets go easily. I feel love is forever, this is why some people tend to regret decisions they make.
My general question is whether we truly love or if we just fear being alone. I have once seen a guy whi is my friend, being desperate to have a girlfriennd and when he later had her, he had no feelings for her, he just had to end it, and the lady was already attached to him, his way of lifestyle and everything, she really cried then but i did not know what to say at that moment but life happens.
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Attachment to me is what triggers us to miss the person we love, and it's part of us as humans. I have once been attached to someone, and it was really tough for me to escape that person's chain because it was like I didn't want the person to leave my space, even though the person was not feeling me again or was not too comfortable with me again. I ubderysand this feeling each time guys tell me, I often tell them to let the lady go, that there are a lot of good ladies out there, but the truth is attachments are what make you miss the person, not love and affection. An attachment missing will make you look desperate, but it's not desperation; it's just part of life.
I will grow to understand love better because attachment will give her wrong impressions of making you look too desperate, and she may see it as a trap, but it's not, it's just feeling bombarded. I understand this feeling, so I will just encourage everybody to love and not feel attached to anyone because anyone can leave anytime, and we shouldn't be scared to let go except we are ready to fight to get the person back.
Love is the greatest feeling we can ever experience, even though we are rich and nobody is with us, we will still feel lonely, except if you want to buy a short-term love. We shouldn't hold back our feelings because some people experience this in the wrong way of life.
