It's amazing how feelings of rejection leads us so deeply into self-scrutiny. We claw at the flesh of our psyche to find every flaw that might have been the cause for the denial of human connection, desperately seeking answers in which we will never find: What's wrong with me? What did I do wrong? What can I change about myself to regain your acceptance?
And If being rejected isn't bad enough, then when your rejector does it through silence, you're left wondering, with a false hope, if it's all just a misunderstanding. Every new email or text or voicemail, may just be the explanation that you're waiting for that never actually comes.
But the truth of the matter is, it doesn't really matter. He's already gone... And now, you must do your best to let go and move on.
Don't ghost on people. It is cowardly, selfish, and so fucking inhumane.
