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You must have heard this word, when you hear this word, you may immediately remember something that has hurt you, for example, being rejected, being ignored, or being belittled. Believe me, as long as you don't understand, don't realize that rejection is very mature and successful, it's very natural for you to feel anti-rejection.
Let's pay attention, the most successful people in this world are people who are victims of rejection. They are victims of rejection, they are victims of humiliation, they are victims of being ignored. Rejection is actually a jumping off point because I myself am also a victim of rejection from a community in this hive. I was rejected many times, I can't even count them, the more we are rejected, the process of self-maturation actually occurs. If you want to mature quickly, allow yourself to be processed in rejection.
Listen to this one important thing, you are rejected or will even be rejected many times, that is something that has to happen. Why does it have to happen? We cannot blame the person who refuses because he is only being used by God to reject us, because if we don't wait for him, someone else will. Don't be annoyed and angry at people who reject us because they are only being used by God to reject us. The goal is for us to mature because we ourselves have at some point or perhaps often been used by God to reject other people and to shape other people to become more mature too. We must have a positive mindset, believe me if we have a positive mindset then the more often we are rejected the more often we will be grateful.
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Kapag tinanggihan, tandaan na marami pa ring taong nakakaalam kung gaano ka kahalaga.
Narinig mo na siguro ang salitang ito, kapag narinig mo ang salitang ito, maaring may maalala ka kaagad na nakasakit sa iyo, halimbawa, tinanggihan, hindi pinapansin, o minamaliit. Maniwala ka sa akin, hangga't hindi mo naiintindihan, hindi mo namamalayan na ang pagtanggi ay napaka-mature at matagumpay, napaka-natural para sa iyo na makaramdam ng anti-rejection.
Pansinin natin, ang pinakamatagumpay na tao sa mundong ito ay ang mga taong biktima ng pagtanggi. Biktima sila ng pagtanggi, biktima sila ng kahihiyan, biktima sila ng hindi pinapansin. Ang pagtanggi ay talagang isang jumping off point dahil ako mismo ay biktima rin ng pagtanggi mula sa isang komunidad sa pugad na ito. Ilang beses na akong na-reject, hindi ko na mabilang, the more na na-reject kami, nangyayari talaga ang proseso ng self-maturation. Kung gusto mong mabilis na mag-mature, hayaan ang iyong sarili na maproseso sa pagtanggi.
Makinig sa isang mahalagang bagay na ito, ikaw ay tinanggihan o kahit na maraming beses na tatanggihan, iyon ay isang bagay na dapat mangyari. Bakit kailangang mangyari? Hindi natin masisisi ang taong tumatanggi dahil ginagamit lang siya ng Diyos para tanggihan tayo, dahil kung hindi natin siya hihintayin, may iba na. Huwag mainis at magalit sa mga taong tumatanggi sa atin dahil ginagamit lang sila ng Diyos para tanggihan tayo. Ang layunin ay maging mature tayo dahil tayo mismo ay minsan o marahil ay madalas na ginagamit ng Diyos para tanggihan ang ibang tao at hubugin ang ibang tao para maging mas mature din. Dapat positive mindset tayo, believe me if we have a positive mindset then the more often are rejected the more often we will be grateful.
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