Sometimes we've to take difficult decision of our Life but we've to take those decisions for a betterment of us or for better future. One of the difficult decision is to do abortion or not. Especially when you're not ready to have kids in your life and you want to focus on your carrier.
Although I never conceive a baby so that i can't understand the feeling of having such a decision but there are so many people which are very close to me but they had pregnancy at their wrong time.
I know a girl from my family friend's, she got married at the age of 18, she was so young although she was studied in university after her marriage too but she got pregnant. According to her it's not the right time for pregnancy and she feels shy to tell other's that at the age of 19 she's becoming a mom but she carry the baby and later she gave birth to a beautiful daughter and now she's three years old. But now she tell her age more then of her real age like if she's 25 now she tell ls everyone who doesn't know her that she's 30. She finds another solution of the problem but she didn't take the decision of abortion.
Many girls before marriage got pregnant and then it's just like a crime here in our society to carry a baby without marriage, then sometimes they took the decision of abortion because in future maybe it'll lead many problems for the girl.
I don't know how things in your life reach to this kind of decision because if you're not ready to conceive a baby there are many family planning council which you can attend and can take advice from them. But now if you conceive a child and you don't want to carry it then it's not a good decision to abort.
Because a life start from zygote then fetus and so as a baby born after nine months. I think if you are pregnant then it'll be foolish decision to abort the baby unless you've serious medical problems which lead to it's worst or you've other serious problem but abort a baby just because you're not ready isn't good decision in my own point.
I think people can do things with the baby too and they shouldn't take the decision of the abortion. I'm not an extremist about abortion that no you shouldn't take the decision but i think if a soul come in the world then let her/him come into the world.
Everyone is different here, our societies, our cultures are different and having an abortion is very personal decision which should be only of parents who are conceiving the child. Well for me I'll not abort untill there's serious medical issues with my pregnancy as I'll follow the doctor advice.
That's all for today and it's my entry in this week hive learner contest in #hl-exclusive for the topic of #hl-w192w1.
