Greetings to y'all!
I'm sure you're good 馃憤.
It was exactly two years ago when I decided to pull out my feelings from the ordinary crushing zone to the real thing on a particular lady, it was easy for me to shoot the shots because we do talk and chat often. I opened up to her and she was like "what took you so long?" That reply called for a for testimony in church but I wouldn't do that. I became the happiest person that season, you know how a guy feels when he catches a beautiful & new fish? That's exactly how I felt.
I was surprised at her quick catch and I assumed we were meant to be that's why it worked so fast, but little did I know that....(read on).
The Interesting part is that, this lady is the righteous type (or I should use "church type"?), Infact she caught my eyes while we were in church and not only that, we're in the same department in church. Imagine that kinda thing...no 'baaaad' thing involved 馃檮.
During the lovey-dovey process, we planned on our future and how we're gonna release the news to the leaders of our department.
I won't lie, I had genuine feelings for this lady because she possessed all my dying specs馃榿, but I didn't checked one part of her which gave me a pause when I found out.
The period I met her, she was preparing for her final exams & graduating ceremony from Ordinary National Diploma (ND), and with that effect, she automatically turned me to her "get easy access" bank.
It started with "my subscription just exhausted, could you please send me N3,000 for subscription. I would have opted for the subscription of N1,500 but it doesn't last for me". Omo! See someone that's pleading for subscription, she's added T&C.
Each time she comes with this pattern, I always know how to dribble the ball and score like Ronaldo, I oftentimes end up sending N1,000. And I would feel like a "mumu"(fool) after sending that, do you know why?? It's because it's seems like she's using my head.
She graduated from recharge card & subscription to "my foodstuff has finished" and each time she comes to this, I always tell her to use her last money to travel home to get foodstuffs.
She Oftentimes pick offense to my reply on such issue but I didn't give a f*ck because I noticed that she wasn't for the love/relationship but purely for money making.
No wonder she quickly agreed, maybe she thought I was loaded with money because of where I was working then.
Look at the last attempt that made me to ghost her till today.
It was her final exam and she needs to buy the graduation wears, she chatted me to buy for her and everything amounted to N15,000. A whole 15k!
I boldly told her that if all the demands she's been making is for her to test if I'm stingy or not, I'll boldly fail the test.
She's was like "No nah, how can I say something like that".
I just said my mind to her and left online that day.
Shockingly, the next day which was the graduation day, I saw her photos with on the wears. Which means she had bought them already and she was just looking for a way to milk me.
Omo! Ever since that period, I just ghosted her even though we see in church, every church day.
Some ladies are not looking for genuine love/relationship, all they want is milk the guy, milk him hard and exhaust him completely. No offence馃