Ghosting is the act of dodging some one whether directly or indirectly this maybe as a result of so many things and this things have positive and negative reasons. POSITIVE REASON: it might be because the person you are dodging is a paste on you giving you alot of disturbance. It might be that the person is a bad friend and you don't want people to see you and the person together thereby tagging you bad (example is when you have a thief as a friend). It might be that the person is always making you feel inferior of yourself. So these are so many reasons why many people dodge people. NEGATIVE REASONS: In the negative part of it might be because the person is doing a bad thing so the person have to dodge people so that they will not catch him. Another is wen you have a friend that is always telling you lies the best thing is to cut him or her off so avoid them putting you in problem one day. It might be as a result of depths ( many dodge friends that the have borrowed from just hide so that the person will not see them and keep asking them about their money). It might be as a result of criminality,anyone that is a criminal will keep dodging people so the will not see his face. I call it negative because it is very bad , meanwhile if you know you fall into this category is better you leave it because it is very bad , this life don't suppose to be had is just us that is making it to look like it is that difficult.
Meanwhile this prompt is like a stay bullet directly to me because i have ghosted so many people due to so many reasons, even i have a particular one i have been drawing a strategy on how to ghost her right away because she is a paste on me not that she is a bad girl but just that her small small problems is getting much on me. You know there is this set of girls when she see you as a friend they think the have seen family elevator, poverty changer , though some have good character that can make you change your mind not to go into ghosting them , but many when i say many, majority of them has a very bad character and they don't even care all they want is getting that their needs any other thing you are talking about is your own they don't care.
This my friend i met her here in school where i,m doing one program where we both studies together, she was in the school before i entered the school. One very good day she met me in class and initiated a conversation which was cool to me and from there we became friends which i never knew new i was signing a financial agreement. That day we were talking something crossed all i heard was ma come oo how much is this the woman said and all of a sudden another was KC help me pay for this it na so through my church mind i paid that first day because it was just nothing to me . Another time she came tell plenty stories that also ended in me spending without budget and personally i hate that, before you know it family financial issues now came into the track and this made me i started asking myself so many questions, if she is my babe or a babe to be or a wife or if i have turn to the family inlaw indirectly, up till now i never get answer. The worst part of the matter is that her character is nothing to write home about, she has a very bad mouth and so many other things. So right away in this i have drawn my way out on how to go on muting and ghosting her.
Ghosting people can be very good because it saves you from so many things. It saves you your time , your money and saves you from entering into issues that friends could have caused you in the name of friendship. It also gives you respect because when you are always available to people you might lose your value.
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