I have come to understand that positivity, it's another key to success, I have been a being that stays positive and i guess it brought me this far and i am grateful why am i saying all this it is because during my childhood to me being an adult i have always believed in me it has not always being only believing in me but having a positive mindset.
Life haven't been fair to me ever since i was brought into this world, I mean ever since my mom conceived me it has been a living hell i know one thing for sure i wasn't born into a home of riches but i did not let that weigh my self down infact it was after my birth my dad went totally broke but i did not allow that too weigh me down either, With such a condition i know many kids will follow the wrong path i mean especially when they loose their dad or mom for me it was my dad lost him, I was 7 years old.
I guess you could understand that it wouldn't be a good life for me loosing my father and i know that you know that dad's are the one's who provides our needs and wants and mom is just there to take care of us but in my own situation my mom wasn't with me growing it was due to some family issues i guess if you are from Africa precisely Nigeria if a man dies they blame it on the woman that's by the way.
I grew up with aunt it was hell for me there, I will always be treated bad at my aunt's home it got to a time i was been accused of theft i was technically accused of every evil things that happened in my aunt's home with all my life drama as a kid i never let those things in any way weigh me down the goal was to be successful in Life. Even as a boy i did want to be successful that was my ambition in life.
Growing up being a man wasn't an easy task too but i kept saying positive, Stayed positive that is why i always tell people your present situation is not your final bus stop as a man it is very wrong to give up do you know why? Why because you will be a father some day and your kids and wife will need you to make provisions for them and give them the best life they deserve. I have learnt to stay at all times positive and that is what have brought me this far and you can do same just try as much as possible to stay positive, I know it won't be easy to do but trust me giving up is one thing i know sucks there is no good that comes out from quiting, just stay sharp and stay positive as well all will align.