Your mind is a very strong tool, whatever you think you are in your mind is who you really are. If you feel you are not good enough in your mind that is what you turn out to become.
When you have not make your mind to give yourself the change you want, you will always make pleasing others your number one priority. For you to live a fufilled life you must first all learn not to live a life of pleasing others because you can satisfy everybody.
Change first start in your mind, whenever you decide to renew your mind, a new life as begin for you.
Renew your mind.