Hi Hive Lovers
Once, when you feel very disappointed, a friend who is always a friend to talk to and complain to in the face of life's problems suddenly "uncovers" the secret of your story to others. You are very disappointed and do not accept the treatment of a friend who has been very trusted.
At other times, you feel very angry. You have been in a brilliant position and lots of people came claiming to be relatives, claiming to be friends, and even colleagues. When you are down, the friends who have always accompanied you now go away from you. Don't ask for help; they also don't want to say hello anymore. Pretend not to know you anymore.
Both of these events you may have experienced, or even have experienced more severe events. Woe!
As human social beings, we will never be separated from interaction with other humans. You need friends as a place to share, a place to complain, and to share ideas and life experiences that you are experiencing. You will also do the opposite for the other people you interact with.
Friends vent, share, hang-out friends, slang friends, community friends, and various other terms for friendship, and even virtual friends, whom you have never met physically. Friendship is a human nature that is never timeless. Times may change, but humans will always adapt to socializing. But you must decide who you will sacrifice for.
The old adage says that "by associating with perfume sellers, you will smell good. Associating with losers, you will also be labeled as a loser." That is, a positive relationship will provide positive energy that will maintain a positive image and positive spirit, and vice versa.
That is absolutely the condition we will continue to live in. As social beings, we are destined not to live alone. Making friends, socializing and interacting with other humans, even us with other creatures, is our nature as humans.
Eternal friends are always able to give meaning in every situation. When they are happy, they can make them happy, when they are difficult, they can strengthen them, when they are easy, they can not burden them, and when they are difficult, they can find a way.
Giving, receiving, reminding, and strengthening are values that are always upheld for true friendship that lasts forever, which is always able to be present to give meaning in every situation and condition.
Sincerity is the main ingredient that must be the foundation in building a relationship. A relationship that is filled with sincerity without expecting anything in return and free of interests will make a person free from negative friendships. Sincerity is integrity in a relationship. This value is in each of your friendships. You can judge for yourself who is friend or foe.
Have you ever had a friend turn into a foe or a foe turn into a friend? What did you experience?
Feel free to share in the comments column.