Is it appropriate to get a lady pregnant before wedding her?

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It is wrong on so many levels to get a lady pregnant before wedding her.

Scripturally, it is wrong because the Bible says, "Bed Undefiled" This simply means you are not supposed to have sexual intercourse with the lady you intend to get married to, prior to the wedding. Getting her pregnant will therefore mean you did which is wrong.

Looking at it from another perspective, when you get a lady pregnant before getting married to her, you end up rushing things and proceeding to marry her because she's pregnant. What if she's not the one for you? What if you can't be with her? So many what ifs. Getting married to her will make it seem like you guys got married because of the incoming baby.