I saw a trending post yesterday about a man whose wife cheated on him. What made the post trend wasn't even the "cheating" it was the fact that this man was brought the lady to the UK from his home country where he married her from, he's been paying her school fees, working extra hard to make a living for the both of them.
The UK is one of the most expensive place to pay school bills, and this guy who apparently (in the videos I saw on Twitter) is a software engineer. I don't think the money was the issue here.
The guy looked like someone who has made some good money, he has a respectable career and has probably spent a lot of this money on this woman and was probably vexed that even after all his effort, his wife still chose to cheat on him.
Biblically (which was the main origin of marriage) marriage was supposed to be a thing of bliss, happiness and companionship, but the modern women of these days are something else entirely. In the bid to stress women empowerment, so many women no longer understand the concept of loyalty and honour.
The internet preach or magnify some of the "wokeness". Women are encouraged not to respect men, not to value them, to invalidate them.
Women are taught to feel entitled, and this sense of entitlement accompanies ingratitude. A lot of men go through inhumane labour, working odd jobs, doing crazily things to be able to afford to keep a family, and it's sad how these things are hardly valued.
The media, internet and the 21st century makes laws that invalidate the sad experiences of a man, and women are no longer brought up to be respectful, obedient, loyal and empathetic, and I blame the lack of morality and the fear of God and an overall sense of responsibility that comes from some of them.
The man in question is completely broken.
At the moment he'd begin to question if the child the woman has for him is even his, and will question his very essence in life.
When it comes to trust he'd be completely broken because he wouldn't think a woman he brought from his home country could easily hook up with another person and cheating with that person.
He'd probably laugh at the effrontery, and this would lead to sadness, pain and massive regret. When it comes to life in general he'd probably lose trust in everything he does, he'd find it difficult to trust his friends, companion, business partners and others too and that's because the origin of his trust system has been broken.
This is how broken people are made, it starts from one center point of trauma and the begin to project that trauma to every life situation and experience.
This guy will probably find it hard to marry again, and this isn't because he won't be able to find another person to trust, it's simply because he's already broken and no one can heal that, at least not in the short term.
Most people that were betrayed by women find it hard to easily move on to someone else, except they never originally went all in with that woman.
This is why the concept of marriage is originally built with one man and one woman. People are embedded with a loyalty core, it's enshrined in us like a constitution and most people aren't this way because they might already be broken.
The way I currently see love isn't the way I saw it 15 years ago, this is the same with a lot of people.*
In 2035, more people are going to have it worse and I doubt that true love Is even going to continue to exist by 2040.
The game and system is bad, probably not as good as we had it in the 80s. Wokeness is going to continue taking new forms in the future, and if you probably don't find true love today, there's a chances you won't do in 5 to 10 years time, it gets worse everyday.
