Greetings, everyone
My response here is that, it can be both sides. Jealousy is a sign of love. When your heart is clear, with joy, and you are anticipating getting the person's joy of achieving something,d your heart leaps in joy. I could say this jealousy comes with a sign of love.
Do you think jealousy is a sign of love, or does it come from insecurity?
When it comes to the relationship of a man and a woman, I can say that jealousy that comes with love is when a man flirts with his woman and she realizes he has flirted. She will communicate with a high sense of maturity just to protect the relationship and herself without being rude but putting boundaries in the relationship. On the other side, when a man or woman acts out of jealousy, there would be a fight or a quarrel that can lead to something else. So there is healthy love and unhealthy jealousy.
I used to be very jealous of my guy, if I realized that he was with another person, even when the lady was not, or he was not. I would always want to monitor his life, especially his phone to know if he has chatted with another person. It was very unhealthy for me at that time because I was being jealous out of point and it wasn't good for my mental health. I had to put a stop to having male friends, because those guys are something else. They don't know how to settle for one. They would always want to have a different taste of it. Some of them can't be satisfied even with the married ones, very unfaithful to their spouses. And you see some married women who are overly jealous, fighting with their husbands, or the lady being cheated on.
Thinking about all of this is nonsense.