WE112 || They were wrong

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I am happy to found Weekend Experiences community. It is another great and amazing community to be with where we can post anything about weekends or a specific topic given as a weekend experiences concept.

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For this weekend another concept was given by galenkp@galenkp. Its WE112 Weekend Engagement concept

I choose this concept to write on today.

How do people see you
Write about how you think other people see you from a physical perspective. Tell us what they like, your best bits, and what you think they don't like, and explain your answers. This is not about what you see, but about what you think others see and think.

Unfriendly and snobbish
I am a serious type of girl, lady or woman and most people look at me as unfriendly and snobbish. Since I don't talk to much and just sit beside on the corner, no one will befriend of me, no one will notice of me. But they were wrong. Yes, I'm serious but I also have few yet real friends.

A friend of mine once told me, "I really thought your snobbish and unfriendly, but I was wrong."

Having a lot of friends is good but having few but real is precious.

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I'm a teacher
Oh! I keep on smiling when I remember my classmates back then as well as my previous teachers because when we met they keep on asking where I am teaching? Do I look a teacher? No, I am not and don't have a plan to teach in school. I might be a teacher for my son. Might be they thought I took up education because I love kids, I love teaching them bible stories in church and I also excel in academics back then in our small school.

I'm rich
I thought people think of me as rich or something a person with lots of money. I was able to think about it because most of my workmates will go to me and ask me to lend them money. If they need money for their electric bills, water bills, milk or diaper for thier kids they will always thought of me and expect me to lend money for them.

Off course I am not rich. I am just a person who felt how they felt, trying to put myself on their shoes and understand they need. I never said no as long as I have. I have a soft heart especially when their reason is to buy milk for thier babies or to buy medicine for the sick or the buy rice for them to eat and survive for a day. I am not rich but I am blessed by God who is always there to provide our needs.

I'm strong and healthy
They thought I am strong physically and emotionally because I am active in every activities. They thought I am healthy because I prefer to eat fruit and vegetables over rich foods and meat. But again, they were wrong. I am so weak emotionally and I cry easily over simple things. I am not physically fit because I can't even donate my blood for my father. He died without having my blood infused to him. I felt bad and so sad about it. I also almost die when I undergone Caesarian Operation but praise God I am still here and writing this for you to read. I am so thankful for this second life.

It is so sad when people thought you are strong because they don't even mind to ask if you're okay. They will always thought that you are strong enough to listen or accept their critics, they thought that those hurtful words they throw to you is just okay with you. But they don't know how it broke you into pieces.

People think who you are is sometimes so opposite to who really you are. That's life. Just allow them to think about you but don't let their thinking rule over you. Be yourself because you know who really you are in the first place.

Thank you so much for reading and I hope you learn something.

WE112 || They were wrong | Ecency