When the silence comes ...

No problem is so small as not to discuss it as a couple. This is not an apology for fighting, nor that everything should become a war.

But it is a wake-up call, because one of the most dangerous things that can happen is that silence reigns. That the important things are not talked about…

Worry not when they tell you something they don't like, worry when they don't like it, when they don't feel like talking…

What I give speaks about who I am, about me. While what you give me speaks of who you are...
We live getting frustrated because we act in a way with people and they do not correspond to us in the same way. We may even think that our personal value is associated with what we receive from others... and there unfortunately we can lose our essence, and always what happens is for the best, although sometimes we give ourselves strokes! Then you look back, and you say to yourself... ahhh if this hadn't happened it wouldn't have come to this another one. To what you are today.

Everything in this life is beneficial for our personal growth.

Of course, interactions with people can show us that there are things we can improve. But many times the problem is not you. Above all, if what you are giving comes from generosity, affection and respect.

Suddenly, and even if it hurts, you mean something else to that person who is valuable to you. The other also has a story that you don't know and makes him who he is, that's why, in the end, when you decide to give, think that what you give is a testimony of you... not what you get.

The static in life leaves us nothing... Movement in physical life is what teaches us and makes us remember to move forward. If not, why did we come to live this life experience? Let's remember that when we leave, it's not going to be worth what they did to you, gave or didn't give, or told you. What counts is what you did, you gave. you said and felt with what happens to you in life. He's particular... You are the protagonist of your story.

Your life is your responsibility. We can't run other people's lives, only our own.

And by vibration we attract the situations in experiences we live from any kind of relationship and diseases as well. We are even born in places according to our own vibration... to heal...

This does not mean that we are bad people and we deserve everything bad that happens to us in this life. They are things that we must experience and realize that it no longer resonates with us because it hurts and is not right. There is the memory that we will take with us and make it better and different.

"The evolution... That's how I understand it*.

What you receive is not in your control, and therefore changing who you are based on what the other gives you can be one of the worst mistakes we make.

Janitze.🌷