We are all dangerous...

Sometimes we keep silent thinking that we avoid problems, but people abuse and when we finally decide to talk, they abuse us, they become the victims, and our defense turns it into their argument to say that we attack them, and they make us see how selfish and the bad guys of history. The Anger they say we have, is only the limit of our patience, to endure and endure their abuses and their lies.

That's the way I was, but I think it's better to talk and clarify things at the moment to avoid misunderstandings and not carry bitterness in your heart that ends up sinking you in the end. I learned not to keep quiet about anything, better to say everything, we swallow things because we don't want to hurt or avoid arguments and then if you keep yourself when you explode there is no turning back.

In short, a person who does not know how to manage his anger and finds it difficult to set limits in time, God save us from the gentle waters that, that of the current and rough, I free myself, because it soon passes...That's what my grandmother used to say.

The issue is who can stand it the most?. The one who endures the most keeps rage, anger and even with a good heart.. when they break us, they hurt us, they push our limits... we are a tsunami... not there who stopped us!

Besides, when we get tired of being used as a garbage bag, the shit pours out...We all have a limit.

The most dangerous anger will always come from the calmest and kindhearted person.

What are the signs of this person who can become irascible? Well, at first this person usually stays quiet, is kind and lets things pass, until one day he decides to talk. Because when someone patient finally speaks up, it's because you've crossed too many boundaries.

I think the calm is familiar from the boundaries.

The biggest problem with being a kind-hearted person is that people think you're stupid. No one can hurt us without our consent. In some cases, the other may be evil and extremely dangerous, but there is always the other party, who allows it.

I think sharks always move away when we stop bleeding. The shark does not invent blood, it only detects it and that makes people who are very dangerous and bear,

I remind them that the sea is still sea and it is full of sharks. How?

Let's think about something simple if we always leave the door of the house open every day sooner or later someone is going to come in and not because the world is unfair but because you left the door open, and well we can get angry, do catharsis and say "people don't respect anything" and all this is true, but we leave the door open.

In other words, we have to be clear with people, know how to say yes and also say no, to know how far the other can go, where to slow down, to be able to do this not without having to justify ourselves como.si we were asking for forgiveness for existing. When we stop bleeding from the wound, very concrete and very good things happen around us.

Sharks are always going to be lurking around, they get closer and move away when they don't detect any blood, or a crack where they can put their finger. The best thing of all is that sharks get angry when we stop bleeding many times they have told me to my face, especially the sharks "the family" who tell me "you used to trust me and you told me your problems", it's a terrible filter, because they are people who feed on our problems, and they are not happy that good things happen to us, hahahah they get angry! It's the typical shark phrase when you no longer bleed, or carry the sign hanging around your neck that says: Use me...

This also happens for love, conversely, I have friends who don't bleed and for that reason the sharks don't come. I mean, they have the door so tightly closed that it's impossible for a love to reach them.

Janitze.🌷