It's happened to all of us ...

Prudence is not a lack of desire, it is to be in control of our lives. When we choose to wait we are not wasting time, we are gaining freedom.

Let our actions be a choice, not an accident. Never in it.maybe let's decide something with the scrambled emotions so that we don't have to pick up the broken glass.

I have learned to be prudent and that does not mean that I am a coward, nor that I have a lack of character. I think it's my emotional wisdom to be able to speak, respond and decide. In fact, it has happened to me many times that I have decided with overflowing emotions, emotions that become a mandate, and although the discomfort tightens and the answer is still unclear, thank God, prudence appears when it comes to choosing to wait.

And it is at that moment, when the intensity drops because our body is ordered and our head returns to think more calmly. And that's when we understand that decisions stop being reactions and start being choices... How do I achieve it? I achieve it with patience, consistency and loyalty above all.

It's good that people understand, and really put themselves in our shoes. Besides, waiting is not wasted time, it's time for growth.

Because when we don't know what to do, pausing is also a movement, like breathing, waiting, and listening to ourselves.

Why am I saying that? Because I've lived it, and I don't feel guilty for feeling this way, people who are not in my shoes, nor understand what I feel, nor are they going to understand, ever.

You have to surround yourself with people who have gone through similar experiences to those that happen to us because they are people who are going to understand it, they are people who share their experiences and share how they recovered.

What do I mean, for example if we feel or are depressed, in depression and we meet with super optimistic positivists, I say it because it has happened to me, we are going to feel worse, on the other hand if we meet with people who are depressed or have passed because of depression, it is possible that these people are more understanding and put themselves in our shoes.

We live through so many turbulent, exhausting things every day that it becomes very difficult for us to change the external.

I wish!!! this year that we have just released, in order to transcend, the best we can is to make of our chrysalis, our metamorphosis and to be able to pass from the crawling larva to the butterfly that flies freely, there is no other, it is the only way of change from the inside out.

Janitze.🌷