I don't pretend to be a naive moralist...

There are links that only by removing the dirt from your eyes can you see and value.

No one is safe from people who, when they don't like something, end up attacking the person, instead of questioning the idea, or refuting it with arguments. I talk about this topic, especially in these technoracy times, because if someone I don't like doesn't have to be wrong.Especially in times of social networks where everything boils down to likes or dislikes, we can trivialize conversations by criticizing only the surface.

We have to overcome this way of acting, and start discussing ideas, because not always the one who is right is the one I like the most. Just as someone can like us and like the way he looks and that's not why he's right. Moreover, if he speaks ill of others, he will also speak ill of us.

It's normal to make comments about other people's lives, I don't pretend to be a naive moralist, but when a person permanently speaks badly about others, most likely when I stand up from the table he will do it about you.That you participate does not protect you against that effect...As much as you feel that you are special, they will also talk about you.

Especially distrust those people who never have something nice to say about others, that the only comments that come out of their mouths are to criticize or destroy, those people unfortunately will not have a different treatment with you.

People do not see others as they really are, but as we can interpret them from our own world. That is why there are so many misunderstandings that are difficult to explain: we do not see the reality of the other, we see a version filtered by the limits of our own perception.

I think letting go is also growing up, I say this because I had a friend like that for years, I got tired of hearing her talk badly about all our mutual acquaintances and friends. To the point that when I turned my back, she would cut a suit behind my back. My grandmother used to say about spool threads, because the one we least imagine thanks us for life in front of us and then goes behind trying to put all the trips in the world on us, they are fake people, and getting away from them is the healthiest thing.

They probably won't tell you to your face, but be sure that they will tell someone and then when you find out you will feel betrayed for having participated in a game that no one is safe from.

Starting to value the ideas of others beyond how they make me feel becomes an urgent measure in a time where everything moves at the speed of a click. It is also true that a person's internal world determines how much he can understand of another's world.

Janitze 🦋