Fear not to fail is already a capital failure no one who is scared of failing makes progress because when you fear to fail then be rest assured that that there will be no new inventory there will be no development, there will be no growth because all these comes with a 50-50 chances which is either you win or you lose.
There is something I have tried and have failed over and over again.
This might sound or look ridiculous but then to me it's something that has kept me away from a path for a while since I don't want to be disappointed again just like I was in the previous attempts.
I once met a dark skinned, tall and a very beautiful lady, she got my heart and has given me a restless and a sleepless night.
My confidence in approaching women almost failed me when I saw her as different from all other ladies I have approached with a matchless vibe at which they hardly say no, in fact they happen to even like me right before I even go to them.
This seems to be different as all effort to make her notice me failed. That was the beginning of my failure.
Then I decided to meet this lady to confess my feelings to her but guess what, this lady bounced me like I have never experienced from any lady before.
The worst is that it was done even right before the eyes of people who have always seen me with high esteem, immediately that happened I felt a part of me dying, like I can fail in all other things and not get worried but this part is unbelievable but then I felt a part of me loved her even the more. It has not even started for me to get tired so I kept on pushing and she kept pushing back as though it was not me. I couldn't believe there would come a time when I would fail in this aspect of a relationship and would have to go over and over again until I came across this one.
That lady made me feel nothing of myself as a result of the countless failed attempts I made towards her.
She pointed out how she is not like all the other girls I mess around with. The statement kept me in perpetual shock, As I tried to check my lifestyle again considering what she said but there was nothing to check as what she said was absolutely right.
I promised to turn around but she still stood her ground of not giving me any opportunity.
For 3 months of chasing I couldn't believe How I was not able to talk to any other lady simply because I felt all of me handed over to this lady in particular.
The one thing that kept me going was how reserved that lady is, I could boldly say she is a lady that any man will want to have.
I almost gave up after 7 months of the chase but then my resilience and persistence gave her a reason to reconsider with strong terms and conditions which my heart gladly accepted and ever since that day I have been with her no side girls but she alone.
If I haven't met that girl, I trust my life would have been some kind of mess with either some crazy messing around with ladies without focus on what to get most of the future and who knows maybe babies out of wedlock would have been the result which is not always good for the reputation.
