Hello women in Hive. How are you?.... I hope you are all well and in God's love and protection.
This time I want to write something that I think is very important. This article is not intended to prohibit a woman from having children or to badmouth a woman who already has children. Because I myself am also a woman who is in the process of finding her identity and life principles.
This article is based on my own reflection and seeing the social reality in my environment. So just think of this as a reflection for all of us, especially women who are the same age as me.
Who doesn't want to have children?..... Although some people choose to live without having children for certain reasons, most women want to be mothers with long-awaited children.
However, there are not a few cases of women throwing their babies into rivers, secretly entrusting their babies to orphanages, even worse, there was a case of a mother killing her toddler child.
This means that everything needs preparation, especially for women who get married and start a household at a young age. Not a few in my environment who marry young end in separation which makes the child the victim.
According to my mother's advice when giving her views on how to marry and household, she said "Young age does not mean you can't get married, but let's say it's not right to get married. Because young age is the time to find your identity and life principles."
Indeed, I witnessed it myself, women who marry young and then face situations and conditions in the household after ending in divorce, their wild souls return.
Once again, this article does not mean to view women negatively, because first I am a woman and second sometimes a woman's attitude depends on how men treat her.
This is where it is important for us to develop well together first in all aspects of life, especially mentally and financially before we reproduce.
The conclusion is that what I mean by the saying "Develop Well Before Reproducing" is my thought that anyone, not just women, would be better off staying focused on developing and improving themselves and achieving stability before deciding to get married and deciding to have children or start a family.
The challenges in the household environment will be much different from the challenges when we were still in school. My mother said that anyone who has finished college and then lives with a family and society will definitely be faced with many challenges, financial challenges, mental health challenges, emotional challenges and so on.
Thank you for stopping by and reading. For more details, let's discuss politely and warmly.
