Iconzbranding good morning, I am into a distance relationship. We met in school and hv been together for 5yrs plus. We're planning marriage by the end of dis year or next yr. I truly love him that i don't give ear to any guy dat comes across my way. I trust him. He leaves in Lagos and i in Delta. He never told me he is dating somebody over there and when i ask he will tell me nothing of such is taking place ad that he has not touch any woman since we saw ourselves June last yr. We communicate true phone. And i do send him money to put things in order. He rented an apartment which we are trying to set up. He has been squatting with his younger brother and move from there to his aunty's place according to what he told me that is why he doesn't want me to come for now until he set up his own(our) house. Just yesterday I called him with a strange number and b4 i could answer him in our usual nickname he shouted Ronke; am i speaking with Ronke, i quickly played as Ronke ad he ask if this is my second number, i agreed and we start talking and i ask if we can meet 2day and were. I also ask him to buy somthing for me when he is coming and he accepted.
He said he noticed depressed from my voice he believe i will like to discuss it with him and if i can discuss now and i replied I am in the office and i can't talk such issues here. I then ask him if he has close from the office he said no but in an hour time ask me to come over to his office so can talk. I agreed but because I am not in Lagos i called him that i can't make it and that my aunt gave me a directive which i need to follow b4 she comes back. So we scheduled the meeting for weekend. I lied to him about my distress and He consoled and encouraged me to be strong and we played along like dat. To cut d long story short dis morning he called me and checked on me as a boyfriend will do his girlfriend and later called me again (Ronke) as I pretend to be and called me luv and also checked on Ronke. I called back and told him I feel relieved speaking with him and he started confessing he love me with 1st sight and don't know why but he told me d truth that he love me but since i did not give him a pleasant answer he forge ahead with life and has somebody again with a back up that you don't expect a guy to stay lonely as that (6months). i told him i have been hurt several times by guys and thats why I am reacting that way and ask him if he truly love me and i can love too and how will it be 6nice he has started dating someone else.
He said the feelings he has 4 me has not changed. And i ask if the other girl his close to him he said no. Please what can i do knowing fully well dat he is not keeping himself for me as i am doing here. His family knows me very well and supported our dating. What can I do post but hide my identity. Please advise me. Now the house we rented he brought his siblings in and i ask him that i will visit by Next month ending but he refused and said his siblings are in and he will not like me to be humiliated before his siblings that the last time i visited them in Lagos he noticed that his sisters did not received me well. Please I need ur advise.
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