Don't ask for my forgiveness today! Because I won't give it to you. And it's not because I'm mean. No. I have nothing to forgive you.
I've learned to let people go. I don't keep your bad things about me inside. Your words spoken on emotion, your actions are yours, I don't need that dirt, I dump it. Is it hard? Of course it's hard. No, I don't live lightly. And I have resentment living in my heart, but I don't need to be asked to forgive for it. For me, "sorry" is not an escape, not a cure-all. And until I let go of the situation, no amount of apologizing will change it. And if I've already let go, then "sorry" doesn't matter to me, because I don't care about the situation anymore.
In general, I believe that a person who asks for forgiveness asks not for the subject, but for himself. Not to make the other person feel better, but to get the weight off his shoulders. But I understand that others have a different attitude, so get in the habit of asking forgiveness after the fact and get in the habit of forgiving.
Don't ask my forgiveness today. And if you want to cleanse your soul so much, you'd better do this, better promise that you will try to live so that you would have to ask for forgiveness as seldom as possible. I know, it's hard. Because "you can't please everyone. Promise yourself not to get offended over nothing. And remember one simple truth: "When you throw dirt at someone else, he can dodge, but your hands in any case will be in the dirt.
I am not going to say that I am a "holy" person and have not hurt anyone. No. But I have either already asked for forgiveness for what I have done, or I will never ask for forgiveness for my own reasons.
Don't ask my forgiveness today. Because I am a vicious man like you. And it is not for me to forgive you. Lift your eyes to the sky and forgive yourself. The new day is a clean slate, try not to soil it with actions that require forgiveness.
