Do you believe in love at first sight? How do you define TRUE love? Is it important to have healthy sex relationship in order to develop true love?

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I actually love this question as it requires a deep explanation about understanding what relationship and true love is all about. I will have to scrutinize and analyse each question completely to enable everyone comprehend this.

Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?

It actually depends on what got you attracted to the person involved. Some guys are attracted to the curve or sexiness of a lady while some lady may be attracted to the body of a guy. The fact is most of this sometimes occurs as a result of "lust" and not "true love". This is because you are probable thinking about how you can have sex with such person.

I am not saying there isn't love at first sight but most of it isn't genuine as they are mostly lust and not love.

You may also fall in love at first sight provided the person you saw possesses all your requirements you need or want from your future spouse.

For example, I love a lady who is chaste and good in character/God fearing. Let's say I went to visit my friend for holiday and I observed a lady speaking to people with respect and demure in character, there is high chance of me falling in love with such lady because that is what I wanted.

To answer your question, I do believe in love at first sight but not 100% let's say 70%(winks).. Lols.

How Do You Define True Love?

Every individual have different ways of defining true love based on their level of understanding and experience.

For me, I believe true love is all about sacrifice. I believe true love is all about loving people for whom they are and not for what they are.

Some people fall in love because of wealth, some fall in love because of beauty or handsomeness, some are in love because of their partner's status and many other reasons. The question you should ask yourself is will the love still be there when your partner looses his or her beauty? Will the love still be there when your partner goes broke? Will the love still be there when your partner losses his or her status? If you can answer all this questions in affirmative, or with a strong yes, that defines true love.

Is it important to have healthy sex Relationship in other to develop True Love?

Firstly I will say true love isn't all about sex but sex is part of love because it comes naturally between two lovers. It serves as a bond which sometimes hold lovers in place and also increases the love between them.

But having sex doesn't sometimes guarantee true love because some people just love to have sex with you and when they are fed up or satisfied with your service they find a means of breaking up the relationship. This kind of people aren't genuinely in love with their partner. It is always advisable to avoid such people who just love to have sex with you without making any positive impact in your life. This kind of people see their partner as sex object and anyone who does this isn't truly in love but in lust.

I will have to stop here for now because I still have more questions to answer on this great platform. Always remember to choose your partner carefully.

Thanks for reading and I hope this helps.