One thing why i love to have reminders because it makes me look back and see how much I've grown back then till now.
Thanks to Facebook for always reminding me about my past posts.
This was two years back today where I've written a simple quote to keep myself being positive about everything in life.
That's when I was still in the process of learning how to love myself, those flaws and imperfections and letting things go.
It was not easy i know for one person to learn to let go of all the negative things people said or do to them and love their ownself despite everything that has happened.
Once you've learn to love yourself, trust me you will shine from within. 😉
I remember where a long lost friend of mine who met me up for a drink, she said i was looking great and flawless which i didn't even know it. 😂
I was like what? Nooo.. I've always been the same😂
She keep saying nooo, you're always so cheerful and flawless from before and like how did u do it?
Everything looks so perfect and she said she is not and still learning how to love herself & it sucks. Plus at that time she just graduated and is jobless for nearly a year already which makes things even worst.
That really hits me.
I realised that most of the events in my life actually made me so different now from that version of me years back without me even realising it.
You can suddenly feel so lost one day or the whole year or for years, feeling lost in all sense of directions in life and blamed everything that made you that way but in reality you actually have the power to turn all that around.
Learning not to put the blame on others or yourself actually gives you an ultimate inner peace where you get to master to look positively at everything in life and nothing can actually affect you at all.
Of cos somedays you might get caught in between it and take sometime dwelling in it but if you get to look through it all, you have already successfully master it.
I admit I'm a very great thinker which bugs me everyday 😂
But it's a good thing though because it makes me look at both positive and negative sides and how to resolve it.
Here are some tips on how i did it:
The most important part is to allow yourself to feel sad or down within a short time frame and then distract yourself with lots of positive quotes or vibes or perhaps do something that makes you happy and excited everyday.
Learning that everything happens for a reason and why it happened.
Listening to good music too always helps all the time.
Always reminds yourself that life is only once so why not make it a happy & meaningful one instead and if you failed today, keep trying again until you get there. 😉
Making mistakes is always a lesson to be learned from because we are all imperfect.
Read or write quotes or write down your nagativite feelings or perhaps draw it out actually does helps too.(Perhaps some things it's hard to express it in words or you might not want to share it with others.)
Not to forget always surround yourself with positive quality friends too.
This is what I've written 2years back today.29/05/2017 ❤️
Jump as high as you can,cause no matter how hard you will fall it doesn't matters at all~
What matters the most is you enjoy & embrace every moment of the good & bad events in life..
Don't let negativity of life changed the way you look at life...
We only live once,so enjoy it,appreciate it,be that you,be real cause beautiful moments only comes by once~💕💃🏻
Cheers!
@gracefu is sincerely writing 😊
