It would be so nice if we can live a fear free life but like the holy book state
Man, born of woman, is short-lived and glutted with agitation
Fear are a part of life.
Fear is triggered by threat of harm, or danger at time you might imagine it other times you might experience it but which ever way if it's not properly managed we will be scared of nearly everything.
In as much as fear is not a good emotion it also play a good role in human life.
the function of fear is to help us reduce or avoid danger.
How we react to fear matters a lot because what kills faster is fear this can be likened to someone with HIV , such a person can survive with the virus if he keep positive and take his medication on a regular.....but he can kill him/herself faster if he allows fear of stigmatisation hold him down.
I have experience a lot of situation that almost made me loss my self and sometimes it feels like my heart is about to jump out of my chest I will just relate one that happened.
Fear of loosing loved ones is one greatest fear that I have not come to reconcile with and these as lead to a lot of panic on my part.
my dad hardly fall Sick (not like he doesn't) so one time he fell sick and was thinking it's his normal headache he requested we buy some over the counter drugs to help him recovery.
Two days latter no sign of recovery and so I advice we take him to the hospital, but he refused..he kept insisting that his fine and will be better after he rest.
That day we had to attend service and so he prepared himself and came along. While the program was going on we were asked to stand up and sing my dad managed to and the next thing I saw was that he slum back to his seat...that minute fear grip me and I couldn't help but started crying.
Some persons asked that I should go get a cab so we can rush him to the hospital but I said I don't want to leave his sight so someone else should do that .
Fortunately for us we got a cab and while on our way to the hospital my dad was still proving stubborn and he asked the cab driver to take us back home.
The reason I relate this story is for us to learn a thing or two from my experience...
Fear of what would happen to my dad if I left to get the cab made me not to make a step or even getting help.
I didn't think before acting and that's what fear does it makes you feel helpless, hopeless and you just take a decision even Before You think and that complicate things.
So the next time you feel so scared why not take a #deep breath, pray,think,ask for help, before you act.
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