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When you try to discipline me that you got to spend a lot of time with your parents the more of the privilege and shattered life you have had and the more easily you panic and feel upset because of insignificant issues people who know how to stay calm under the Blue, North, worst circumstances have simply experienced even worse before.
The more you try to please and get along with everybody less likely you will ever find the people you can have truly connected with. If you live in a country where everyone is angry and cynical and refuse to live, you are actually choosing to become constantly angry and cynical to yourself which will later affect you in all areas of your life.