Have heard most people say, how can I stay with one woman for the rest of my life? When there is other delicacy to choose from, why settle for only jollof rice?
Truth is, those people don't understand the true concept of love.
What is Love?
Love is not sexual appeal, it is not physical attraction. Love is something more, something more that the physical plain of human eyes, love is sacrifice.
To me, the greatest form of love is in two form, dying in the place of someone else, which Jesus has shown us (I've heard that cat do that too) . While the second, sacrificing or putting your dreams on hold for someone to accomplish theirs (Some parent do this).
But what is love? When you truly deeply madly love someone, you don't look at their physical beauty, you love their soul, their brain, and their heart. Physical beauty should just be an added incentive. Love entails patience, endurance, understanding and sacrifice. Love is seeing someone at their worst with all their flaws and you still cherish their imperfection perfectly.
How can you stay with one woman for eternity?
When you truly understand the concept of love, you will realise, you are not stuck with one woman, but different versions of her.
From the first time you meet her, till you die, you will know you had different women at your fingertips and loved each one perfectly.
My advice
Don't waste your energy on different women, love one woman perfectly in different ways.
Dedicated to My Soul (Drey)
