Being around an introvert will make you think if they are really humans, because of the way they behave, think and also cope without people, like it's kind of cool and crazy at the same time. They have a lot to say and wish they could also talk, play, or even have friends as most people do, but it's hard for them, not because they don't want to, but because they can't. Once trust is broken, it's hard to fix it, some have been dealt with in terms of friends. Some people might think they feel too big; that's why they think they can handle everything on their own without anyone's help, but I say, this people are really going through a lot. You never know someone mind untill they let you know.
When you have time with an introvert, they will tell you the hard times they face, the tears they shed most times, the battles they have to face because of the lifestyle they choose, and the tactics they use to navigate through it. I really feel for them, but in everything we do in life, i believe we need men; they are always needed to make life easier and better. Friends and family are really important in everybody's life, because I believe they make us who we are, and they either change us positively or negatively; we just have to choose the way we want to change.
I love my family more than my friends; they are the best. For me, my mom is my best friend; I don't have any best friends, because that name (best friend) is special, some people make mistakes in choosing one.
If I have any good or bad news, my mom will be the first person to hear it before anyone else. My relationship with my mom is one thing I fight to keep, because she cares for me a lot and always wants the best for me. For me, my family comes first before anyone else, so if good news comes, my family will be the first people to hear it.
Many people will choose friends over their families because of the way they might have been treated, or they just choose to isolate themselves from their families.
The reason I choose my family over my friends is that my family is my backbone, they fight for me even if I was at fault. Though most times they can be annoying, what's life without self-control?
Well, for my siblings, I didn't really think I'm the first person they'll share their good news with, but I get to know before it circulates outside. It's kind of sad, because I trust them with mine, so why can't they trust me with theirs?
But for my mom, it's a yes. Because she takes me as her favourite, she tells me everything, so I didn't really think she might change someday, but if she does, it will make me lose trust in everybody around me, and I will feel the pain for days.
Because I really invested in the relationship with my family.
Thank you for reading.