Hello guys, good day all.
Everybody feels pressured in one way or the other, and sometime It's hard to fight those thought that comes to a mind whenever pressure hits. The world today is filled of many people who influences others with their fake lifestyles and it has also gotten many into borrowing and faking things as the want to be like those influencers.
I have been pressured many times to live a life which I know am not yet ready for, it comes from people around me I have the right to flow with them but I feel its not yet time. I mean, why will I live a life i know I'm not ready for and i can't substain at the main time, i believe there is time for everything beneath the earth and if a time for something comes, the it will shine.
Atimes I have to beat my body and mindset to reduce the pressure I get from others. Not all pressure are bad and not all pressure are good, but a huge about of decision we make under pressure turns out to fail, because then, the brain and mind wasn't allowed to work and think about what the a person truly wants.
just like we can't live a life without fear, challenges or bad times, that is the same way we can't live without pressure of any kind, what really matters is the way we handle the pressure that comes our way.
I think if we really learn how to control the way we get influenced, then there will be no need to fake things. To me, it makes no sense faking things, I believe that fakers always live in a circle and It's hard to get out from the circle when it has become an addiction.
thank you for reading.....