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I have always said this and I will keep saying it, don't start the race that you cannot run to the end , fake life is costly but people do not know. They believe in " fake it till you make it " 😂🤣🤣 and I laugh when I hear this statement. My question is , the little funds you use in faking it, why not save it and invest it in better things that produce more cash for you. Instead of flaunting the life style that gives you pressure to maintain online. I tell people that instead of me making big promises that I might not be able to fulfill just to impress people, it's better for me to make little promise within my reach and later fulfill bigger than what I promised if things later level up. Doing that alone saves me from unecesaary pressure.
People now a days are move with with what they see on social media. But the truth is , nobody will tell you the backend of everything they do, you only get to see the front end. Most of the people you are envying online or trying to measure up with, if you investigate more, you might discover that you are more better than them. Some of them are being funded by their rich relatives, maybe they have never hustle hard for the money or lifestyle that they flunt, some of them go extra miles to do indecent things just to have and maintain they life style that they keep. But you are hustling daily , leaving peaceful and maintaining your space. This is not an advice to make you go lazy or relax the effort, but I am only telling you to be contented with what you have and put more effort, work hard to achieve more legitimately. Don't allow any body to give you unecesaary pressure, follow the process and be consistent while upgrading, because every step that you take has a lesson it is teaching you and preparing you for something ahead.
People making good money are not really shouting, they only do their thing on low key.
So go dey do pass yourself.