The obsession with body beauty is usually interpreted only as superficial, but I think it is a very deep longing rooted in the depths of our being of course, we all like to look good and achieve the best version of ourselves. But we must be honest not all of us are attractive and not because I say this I have a lack of self-esteem, but it is the truth that there are many super attractive men and women and that does not make them better than us, but it is undeniable that in matters of love they have more opportunities and it is undeniable that with their beauty opens doors and this although many people do not say it, this causes a lot of scorn. It does not say it, this causes much stinging envy in some people.
i consider myself a very nice person and very sociable, pleasant, but i was never the most attractive of my group of friends.i have several friends who were much more attractive, although i was very charismatic and cheerful. even if we deny it, we all have our insecurities and complexes with some part of our body.as i spent so much time with them and made friends with them i realized that ironically, besides being so attractive, they were more full of insecurities and complexes than i was. my friend isabela was always a very beautiful blonde, with a very asymmetrical face, honey-colored eyes, taller than all of us, with a slender figure for a model, but she suffered because she wanted to have more breasts and buttocks, but that was simply her physical build.
People believe that self-esteem is only feeling beautiful, some even overestimate their beauty, they create a false self-esteem, a false image that we create to protect ourselves, to not feel insecure, we hide the truth.self-esteem is to love ourselves as we are, with our virtues and defects, is to take care of our body going to the gym, self-esteem is to have goals and projects, self-esteem is to have the ability to go out, walk, go to the movies, even to a restaurant, to a Bart without the company of anyone.because to be happy with others we must first learn to be happy with ourselves.
Every person and culture has its own canon and stereotypes of beauty these days We have been sold the false idea that beauty can be perpetuated for many years.If we use magic cosmetics or have such surgery we will delay aging, no one can erase the traces of time.The saddest thing is that many believe these lies.What is wrong with showing our wrinkles...what is wrong with showing our gray hair...they are the proof of our steps in this world when they start with this cosmetic surgery thing.It's like an alcoholic asking for more drinks.It's never enough is the ego asking for more and more.we are never happy with what we have and who we are.
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