I have this bad habit or you can say weakness. When someone tries to insult me or decide to have an argument. I kind of get defensive and the way I defend myself it seems like the person on the other hand enjoys that and continues to torture. I have experienced this on web and in real life.
So I decided to change myself. Now anyone tries to do this to me. I just ignore. I let them post series of comments or whatever they want against me. This way I am saving the time I have on this planet and focusing on things that matter. So in short that would be a good direction anyone should be doing.
Do people provoke you? If yes what are some of the things that they do in order to provoke you and make you respond to them. I feel you have to see the patterns that people use for the same. And make sure to change the way they are finding out faults in you and how they choose to make attacks. That takes a bit of time and effort to understand.
Most of the people take the approach of adjusting to what is coming their way. And that seems like the right approach. Because you have finite energy and you have to use that in a right way. Something you can't do unless you have practiced how to ignore other people. Something you should plan over with efforts with those type of attacks already.
So sometimes you can't learn without going through the suffering. So you have to take the efforts to work with what you can think over in your mindset. Some of the time that in itself is a bitter way to end things out. All it takes is some sort of effort from you and things would be getting some motion.
I am kind of randomly clearing some of the thoughts off my head. I know a lot of you must have thought about the same too. So if you have experience in handling this, do comment :)
