Winter is the perfect time of year to really get close to someone. You can’t beat Mother Nature so you might as well join her! This is the time of year when the temperature goes down but that should have nothing to do with your love life. Here are 5 tips to keep your love life warm even when the temperature dips.
First, and most importantly, Change your attitude! That’s it. It is so easy, simple and it works! Now go for it. Go ahead. It really works. It did for me and it has for years.
Second of all, you need to Get rid of your checklist! I have never had a client come to me and ask to be matched with a fat slob who loves to sit on the couch with a bag on chips and do nothing all day! I know about your list and I know about most lists but I am asking you to get rid of it because over the past 20 years, I have been reading the same lists over and over again. He has to be tall, handsome, make a ton of money, love children, want lots of them, drive a nice car, love his mom, and let you rule his world. Bullshit and good luck! That list has nothing to do with anything. Now, if you want to find a guy to connect with and have chemistry with, then you are going to listen to my advice and open yourself up and change your attitude!
Once you have a new attitude and open mind you need to Get out there! Tis the season to mix and mingle, so go out and meet some new people– connect with people you could have never imagined yourself with. You are now going to be on the right road to finding love and not closing of any doors. What you want is to find someone that you connect with and have chemistry with. Hopefully he/she will be intelligent, open minded, worldly, thoughtful, and both of you will bring out the best in each other so you can have a healthy happy relationship that is based on realistic expectations and not the unrealistic first list above which will get you no where real fast!
This winter concentrate of finding love with realistic expectations and not closing yourself off. So keep this tip in mind on your search: Life is a journey, take some risks. It is well worth it. What do you have to lose? Don’t’ sit around and wait for someone to ring your doorbell. Go for it by changing your attitude! You will start to witness the miracle of life. Once you start thinking differently, you start to get rid of your unrealitistic expectations, your baggage, your insecurities, judgments and you learn to see the world as a different place. Your mind will benefit from this and watch how you start to choose your thoughts wisely. Your body and mind will become one and your overall presence will become more vibrant, alive, sexy, confident and you will start to attract the kind of person who is just like you!
And what do you once your find that special someone? Take advantage of opportunities to get close this time of year- whether it be romantic fires, snuggling or any outdoor activity- and keep the bond going strong.
