Since many years, I'm my own boss. I left a well paid job to try to find my own ways to earn a living through contracting and supporting projects I really like - from own defined and created projects, to supporting projects from others. Throughout this journey, I was able to learn a lot being involved in completely different market segments dealing with totally different products and services, executing a wide variety of tasks, from being an advisor to a startup hotel, proposition creator for various entrepreneurs, to launching product upcycle projects and becoming a Steemian.
A wonderful time, for SURE!
Although I really liked and still like working on all these different projects, I was struggling with the income side of things. Therefore I signed an employee contract - for the duration of 6 months - with one of Dutch leading IT companies.
The employee status in itself was a big challenge for me and took me several weeks to accept. Last weeks I simply felt going back to the status of being an employee equals giving up a lot of my freedom! Even when in reality this is not the case at all! Yeh, of course, an employer can ask to execute certain tasks, and in some way this can be seen as an order, a loss of freedom; However as a contractor or working with others in a team on some project, we need to deliver also the things we agreed to! Regardless of being an employee or contractor, we have our responsibilities and obligations. Therefor, being a contractor and contract myself for an assignment of half a year, is not that much different to agreeing to an employee contract for half a year. Especially when such employee contract is for a position allowing me a lot of freedom, from how to execute the job, what location to execute the job from (office, home), to when to take days off and vacations and so on. Realistically, the perceived freedom as a contractor is not that much different from the freedom I will have in this job I signed up for.
Yesterday, I was at the point my mind was in harmony with the reality; Finally I was ready to say yes to the offer and signed the contract! And it felt good actually, since the job is interesting, the compensation is good, and I don't have to figure out how to pay my bills the next twelve months.
Since my signature, I'm flooded with e-mails from the HR department of this company requesting to fill in all sorts of forms (employee signup forms, loan tax forms, diploma forms and what not). After the second email, and the third form to fill in, I'm getting this uncomfortable feeling again of being back to square one! Nothing has changed with regard to the job itself - still I will have almost all the freedom I would have as a contrator and my bills for the rest of the year are settled - but all these forms gives me this locked-in feeling again, this feeling I'm giving up my freedom.
It is just to funny to experience these feelings! A feeling not based on realities! A feeling completely misaligned with the objective reality and my own logic mind.
Generally, I don't have issues with accepting the realities and bring my feelings in line, in harmony. This is maybe the first time in my life I feel like being between two HUGE fires and have difficulties to accept realities. Knowing myself, time will move me - slowly - to acceptance, so I hope also this time the same will happen. But at this stage, it doesn't feel like that, unfortunately :(
I think I need to party hard this weekend, bring my mind into other dimensions, to be able to forget all of this for a couple of days, and check in - my mind I mean :) - again sometime - early (or maybe not so early) - next week.
