I was checking my picture collection today, and I saw one of those pics I took when I was young. I wore big clothes and big trousers in the name of fashion. I can't stop laughing because, to me now, he doesn't look so good, but that got me thinking about how people appreciate dressing like that.
It is funny because so many people prefer wearing slim trousers and fitted clothes now, but come to think of it, the next generation might find dressing like this odd and hilarious too. We don't know the kind of fashion they will appreciate in the next 40 to 50 years, things might have changed.
Things change daily, and what you feel comfortable with now might be wrong in the next 10 to 20 years. That is how crazy change hit us every day because there was a time when killing twins was normal, but that change and there was a time when love for a military man was highly prohibited. There will be a time when most of the things you are doing now and that you think are right might be wrong.
It is not as if what we doing now is completely wrong or they are completely right. There are always two sides to every coin. Your perspective will always be based on your view and don't forget some people still prefer wearing big clothes to date. The truth is that 6 and 9 are different but that can change based on the side.
Real reason
After we have a change of perspective based on where we see things, this will give us reasons to do things we are doing. That is why no matter how crazy something might sound or someone might look at you, there is always a reason behind it. You might not be confused about their reasons because you are seeing it from a different view.
Most people lack the understanding of view and how it can penetrate or change our perspective. This set of people tends to judge other people quickly, but they forget that even what they believe is not completely right.
Listen well
Most people who are quick to judge are the set of people who don't take advice from anybody they are the ones we call ‘too know’ in Nigeria. They believe they know everything. They strongly believe in their side of view alone. They have forgotten that even the scientific theories we believe in today another theory might come and prove them wrong.
It's important to avoid strongly believing in our perspective and instead focus on actively listening to others. By trying to see things from another person's point of view, we can gain a better understanding of their perspective and potentially even help them to see things differently. It's worth remembering that true change only comes from within, so it's up to each individual to decide whether or not they want to change their perspective.
Ohh! my view
I believe experience is a different beast that can change our view at any time or at any moment of our lives. It models and changes our perspective gradually even though some people don't learn from experience, it is one of the easiest ways to change somebody's view because nobody is completely wrong or right, people will always have a reason to defend their shit.
