People love overnight success because they quickly want to live the life that they have imagined. They get carried away. Scammers understand this, so they sell them the dream of living such a life quickly. But in reality, for you to achieve anything good in life, it takes time. You have to be very patient because the process takes time. Sometimes, when people get tired of the process, thinking it’s getting too late, they begin to compare.
One of the problems with comparison is that it makes it look as if you’re not doing anything. There is an urge in you wanting to achieve your goal fast and if you mix that with comparison, you will begin to look for a shortcut, and no matter the things you sacrifice it will look as if you’ve done nothing. If the person you are comparing yourself with is living the life you imagined, it becomes very difficult for you to concentrate, and not only that you begin to make decisions that would jeopardize your process.
Comparing kill dreams
The way to know that you have made progress is by looking back and checking where you were before because this will remind you of your beginning. For most people, they don’t compare things like this, They compare the present with the future. They begin to compare their journey of a few years with a lifetime process, and it gets more difficult when they start making decisions. They affect their process instead of doing what is right, doing what is right is a gradual process and might take time but a result is guaranteed.
When you start comparing, you begin to take a risk that will not lead to killing your process, but has the potential to jeopardize your life. You begin to take risks that are not calculated. You will know that those risks may be too much for you because some of these risks will not only destroy your life but also take you back to the beginning. Everything in life indeed comes with a risk but there’s some risk that the price you would pay is greater than the results. Such risk will start coming your way when you start comparing because you might not even think it through.
Happiness becomes a myth
It will be very difficult for you to be happy when you start comparing. It’s one of those things that you notice and the main reason why you become less happy is it’s because you begin to think that you’re not doing enough. You won’t appreciate your little progress and the little things you have acquired. It becomes very difficult for you to make yourself Happy, things that made you happy before don’t make you happy again. Which is why it is very important. We should stay away from comparison because it will end your process, make you sad and you begin to take risks that might end your life.
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