Story
- "I'm sorry the table" - teach responsible children
When the son is 2 years old. One day, head hit the corner, head swollen one lump, crying up.
More than a minute later, I went to the table and asked:
"The table is, who is touching the table? How do we cry?
My son stopped crying, tears in my eyes. I touched the table, asked his son:
"Who is that? Who has touched the table? "
"Baby, Dad, I'm touching!"
"Oh, you hit me, so I'm not leaning against the table, saying sorry!"
The son swallowed tears, bowed, said: "Sorry."
Since then, boys have learned responsibility and responsibility!
- "Cry then knock on the door" - teach the children to vent their anger on others
3 year old son. Without great crying, I asked:
"Why, where are not you?"
"No".
"Why are we crying?"
"I just want to cry!" (Clearly).
"Okay, I want to cry, I do not have an idea, but crying here is not very appropriate, will bother people talk, she found a place for me, baby alone crying, call everyone ".
Finished, put the baby in the washroom: "Crying and then knock the door."
After 2 minutes, the son kicked the door: "Daddy, Daddy, I cried enough!"
"Good, are you crying? Cry out, then go out.
From that day until the age of 18, boys no longer learn to manipulate and vent their anger on others.
- Daddy, the river is so beautiful, I want to jump into the pool. - Teach your child to be careful
Five-year-old son. Darkly led the children walk across the small bridge, under the water bridge to see the bottom, flowing water.
The boy looked up at me: "Daddy, the river is so beautiful, I want to jump in the pool." I'm a bit shocked.
"Okay, I'll be down with you. But let's go home first, change clothes a bit. "
At home, the trait or clothes finished, see a bowl of water in front, bewildered do not understand.
"Boy, swim in the water should bury his head in the water, this I do not understand?" The son nodded.
"Now let's practice a little, see how long you can bury your head." I look at the clock. "Begin!". The son buried his face in the water, gasping in the air. Only 10 seconds:
"Oh my god, Dad, water chewing then, really upset."
"Really? A little jump into the river, it may be more upsetting. "
"Daddy, can not we jump in the water again?"
"Okay, do not go, do not go."
Since then, boys have learned to be careful and not blunt, think carefully and then do.
- "Do you want to be a hero or a crane?" - teach your child what to do and not to do
6 year old son, eating. One evening, Monk passed McDonald's, stopping by:
"Daddy, McDonald's!"
"Mm, McDonald's, want to eat?"
"Want to eat!"
"Son, a person who wants to eat is eaten immediately called" crane "(sun bear), appetite that may not eat, then called hero.
Then said, "Son, do you want to be a hero or a hero?"
"Dad, I naturally want to be a hero."
"Well, what about the hero who wants to eat McDonald's?"
"Can not eat!" (Very steady).
"Too brilliant! Hero, go home! "
The son drooled, followed me home. From then onwards, boys learned what to do and what not to do, against temptation.
- "Son, have you decided? Is it a brick or a knife? "- Teach your child to see the consequences of the action
8-year-old son, naughty, fighting with schoolmates. Bruised all over, come home, crying alone.
"Not a memory?"
"Warm!", The boy just cried and answered.
"Angry?"
"Angry!". The son cried loudly.
"What do you intend to do?" Next question: "What do you need me to do?"
"Dad, I want to find a brick, tomorrow will beat him from behind."
"Oh, you see. Tomorrow, I will prepare the brick for you. "
Next question: "What else?"
"Daddy, I'll find you a knife, tomorrow will stab him from behind."
"Yes, this one is more angry, now you're going to prepare a bit." I went upstairs.
Thought to be backed up, gradually his son calm down. About 20 minutes later, I went upstairs with a large pile of clothes and blankets.
"Son, have you decided? Is it a brick or a knife? "
"But what, Daddy, how many cleaning clothes and blankets do you have?" Son suspected.
"Son, that is: if you use brick to smash him, the police will take us away, in prison roughly in a month, we only bring a few shorts and a blanket is okay The If we use a knife to stab him, we stay in prison for at least 3 years without returning, we need to bring many clothes and blankets, four seasons must bring enough.
"So, son, have you decided yet? I agree to support you. "
"So what?" Guys are stunned.
"It is so, the law stipulates that so!"
"Dad, then we do not do it again!"
"Son, are not you very angry?"
"Hail, Dad, Daddy, I'm not angry anymore, so you're okay."
"good three supporters ". Since then, boys have learned to choose and pretend. 6. "Is a strong or weak person, a major or a minor?" 9-year-old son, in grade 4, math does not reach unhappiness. "What's wrong? I did not hit, did light face with my parents? "" Because math teacher is so hateful, her class does not like to hear. " "Oh, how disgusting are you?" I felt very excited. "... v ... v ...", he said a lot, "in short, she does not like me". "Oh, other people like me, I like them, others do not like me, then I hate them. Does this indicate that you are an active or passive person? "" Being a moving person! " Son responded. "Is a strong or weak person, a major or a minor?" I continue to ask. "Being weak, being a minor." Scared son. "Do you want to be a minor or a major?" Daddy, I understand: No matter if the teacher likes me or not, I might like her, respect her, be an active person to be a strong person. The next day, I was happy to go to school, from which the math achieves the elite. And know what is the great man, how are the minor. 7. "Why are you playing? Do not restrain yourself right? "- teach children to rule the 10-year-old son, ego games. I repeatedly reminded you not to listen. "Son, I hear every day you play this?" I pointed at the computer. "Yes!", The son nodded acknowledging. "Every time you play, how do you feel?" "Blurry, empty, not a bit of strength, self-blame, look down yourself." "So why play? Can not you control yourself? "" That's right, Daddy! " Guy is helpless. "Okay, I'll help you." I hugged the computer, gave me a small mug, "son, beat it." "Daddy," the son looked at him. "Beat it, you may not have a computer, but you can not have children!" The son shed tears, personally beat the computer. Since then, boys have understood the so-called principle.
- "Call me Mom" - teach your child to care
11-year-old son. I have to go away with my wife for a long time, every day I called my mother. One day, my son took the machine:
"Dad, hello!", My son was very happy.
"Oh, hello! Where is your grandfather? Call her on the phone. "
"Dad, why do not you just call my grandma every day?"
"This is strange, because it is the mother of the other three."
"What about me? I miss my parents too! "
"So call your mother!"
"Yes!".
And then, every six hours, my wife received a visit from my son. Since then, my son has learned to care for others.
- "Daddy, what's going on in school?"
13 year old son The first semester, the normal performance. One day, he suddenly asked:
"Daddy, what's going on in school? What are the test results? "
"Why are you asking that?" I wondered.
"A few days ago there were a lot of herds coming home, and I always told them that education is the worst education of all five thousand years." The son responded quickly.
Well, the boy heard my conversation in the sky with you.
"No, actually studying or examining does not work."
"Then why are you going to study this useless thing?"
"That's because you're a little kid, first of all do some useless things first, to try your bravery. If even the useless things do not work well, then after growing up, the things that are certainly not going to work. So, going to school should also be good. "
"Oh, dear, there will be a lot of good things to learn!"
Since then, boys have always achieved excellent results.
- "Are you tired, son?"
14-year-old son, go home at home relatives. The man wearing the brand new hair, very gloomy hair.
"Mom, are you cool? My uncle's brother bought clothes, shoes for children, brand XX, very expensive it; Grandma, you look at this hairstyle, he led me to go, in front is very long, ha ha, there is this one? "
It's like a butterfly, flying around the house. I look at that do not care to look.
Two days later, his son stood in front of the ecstatic mirror. I quietly stood behind:
"Are not you tired, son?"
"I threatened to jerk off".
"Ha ha, are you tired? Always tired of the mind, always worried, it is not worth it; Always think about how others look at you. Why are you so miserable, who is tired of dressing your head, so stupid? "
"Daddy, I'm laughing at you." The boy's face is flushed.
"Dad gave me that soft feeling."
"Yes," boys go to change clothes, head to leave normal. "It's so gentle, so comfortable."
Since then, boys know how beautiful, how bad.