Some days ago, I read an article titled "Here are the facts". The author was actually advising ladies not to hang onto guys who don't want them and that ladies should always know when to let go.
I knew that moment that the article can only be written by a lady and when I checked, I was obviously right. I really don't think a guy can go to such extent of advising ladies this way...right?
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Moving on, she said that looking beautiful, being honest, being faithful, doesn't hold a man back neither do spending time with him nor even giving him your all. She said the only way to keep a man is when that man wants to stay.
I made a comment on the article, letting her know that same goes to the male gender, and not just the female gender. I told her that no matter what a guy does for a lady, she can only stay if she truly loves the guy. I also told her that the female gender are more guilty of this, and she replied she has always thought it's the male gender that are more guilty.
Please who is more guilty of this, the male or female gender???
We continued the discussion, and she said that when a guy doesn't love a lady, that there is nothing that she does that will please him which i know it's still the same with ladies. She then ended up saying "That's why it's better for a man to love a woman more than the woman loving the man more"... Hmmm... For real?
I immediately replied her that it's better for a woman to love more...
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WHY DO I THINK SO???
There is always this one woman men will always honour regardless of the number of women they might probably be flirting with. This is because men are wired to love as much as they probably can, and they are always stuck to the arms of that person who makes them feel loved the most. To be honest, I don鈥檛 think a woman needs a man鈥檚 love as much as they would ever need their honour.
On the other hand, the success of any marriage or relationship is solely focused on the emotions of the female gender. It's either a woman loves you or she doesn't. There is no going back to make it work whenever a woman stops loving you... 馃槀.. It only makes it worse. Please don't ask me how I know this...all I can say is that I have had my own share of this side of women.
I just think women should show more love in a relationship since the success of every relationship lies in their hands. When a lady shows more love to her partner in a relationship, her partner tends to be happy and rest assured that he's blessed with a good woman.
I have always believed that when a woman shows more love in a relationship, it makes the relationship balanced. I am not saying the man shouldn't love his partner though, he must surely love and cherish her, but not as much as the woman.
So, what's your take on this topic?.... Pour it out in the comment section, so we can discuss...