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Do you affect a place? How? Does it matter? Should it? Or maybe I should say, why should it not? Or are taking yourself to be a global mistake? There is a saying, ‘no man is indispensable’. Nevertheless, refuse to be easily replaced, ‘rare is rare’.
Be careful of how you talk because it might necessarily reflect your loopholes. This thing is not working, that is not working, ever since I met this person, things have been going backwards. Have you on your own made any positive efforts or contributions?
Hmmm, your presence in an organization is moving things backwards and all you can do is cast blames here and there. Maybe I should put up a simple scenario; a set of persons were able to advance a project from point A to B after a set period of time.
On another set period, the advancement moved from B to C when someone else or a set of other persons joined up from there. On the later phase of moving from C to D, new persons were added yet the project was facing halt and declinations.
If it is not working, check yourself. You just showed up and everything is on a stand still, why? Could it be that that's where it was supposed to stop or that you are not playing your own part? One of the greatest advantage humans have is the ability to work together but this has been neglected on many occasions.
Trust issues had become a very big human problem. We choose competition instead of collaboration; maybe this is where school got it wrong
Were you part of that ‘cover your work’ department in your high school days?. Well, if you want to ask me, I was much of a middle class student, there was nothing much to cover.
If you could help yourself through what I was able to pen down, suit yourself. I had that team work mentality right from secondary days although the schooling system kicked against it.
Moving from there, let's head back to how you can choose to make your presence a turning point. >When you meet people, make sure you don't leave them the same way you met them.
How can you enter into marriage and your spouse is still struggling with prayer life, debts and several other unnecessary addictions. You are expecting it to work while attributing the entire workload to one person.
How do you affect your environment and community? Everything to you is I don't care and you keep transferring blames. These and that should be this or that way. Sorry if you feel offended, we all have our parts to play. As I earlier said, life is much better done by applying team work.