During my childhood days breaking a promise was painted black and wrong in my eyes so I looked at it as something to always avoid, I'd sometimes not even make the promise to avoid breaking it, I only made promises that I felt had more possibly of attaining meanwhile I was still a child so I had no serious business with making promises.
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Its really inappropriate to break promises intentionally but sometimes looking at the cause I won't blame some people for breaking or even making the promise, seeing how bad it is to brake promises, no one in his right sense would want to intentionally brake promises, it's mostly unfavorable condition that could lead to breaking of promises.
I remember when I was a kid, sometimes our parents used promises to convince us and we as innocent children didn't really understand it, anyways the fault is really not theirs because it was hard for is to understand and follow instructions and also the promises they made were not so serious, for instance a terrified child standing before a nurse to be injected, there's actually nothing outside promising that child bobo juice that would calm that child 馃槅, sometimes the parent would buy white other times they might forget or encounter hard situations that would x-ray out buying any juice for the child.
I started highschool in a boarding school and I did my first two classes in that boarding school, while at the beginning I received badly from my seniors, it was a normal thing for boarding school students, the flogging, the the stressed errands and others, most times this is what makes other student decide to react harshly on their junior.
I had a close friend, we passed through allot together and while we were approaching JSS 3 we started making plans on how we would rule in our time, we made promises to each other on how we would do things together and make a perfect set of seniors, we had plans and made promises but before I entered JSS 3 I was withdrawn from the school by my parents, so whiyi was making all the promise, it never crossed my mind that such could happen, I plans was to graduate from that school but unfavorable situations made my parents withdrew me from the school and I lost contact with my friend for a long time.
When I finally got his contact through social media, I chatted him up and he reminded me.of the plans we had together and how that I left, my joy was that he understood that God also makes his plans, he told me that definitely it was God's plan that took me out of the school.
In summary, I've learnt not to be in a hurry while making promises, I've also learnt that it's sometimes really not necessary to make promises, we could achieve allot without making promises, and wheneywe make promises we know we can fulfill, we must puyin efforts to fulfill them.
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