The True Difference Between Winners and Losers is Their Perspective...
Hello, dear friends!
There is often something wrong about our understanding of failure. There should be a difference between failure and defeat and we, as dreamers, ought to recognize this difference and prepare for it.
Our idea of winners and losers in life also contribute to this erroneous mindset that needs to be corrected if one is dreaming of achieving great things.
When we take a look at the lives of the most successful people, we often fail to see all the errors and the trials that have shaped them into who they are currently. We believe that their success was a result of their resilience and talent.
Some even think that successful people have an innate talent and that is what distinguishes them from the rest of the society.
But I want to tell you something very important today:
Winners are those who fail and losers are those who give up.
Failing is, by default, an inevitable process that we all must go through if we want to achieve something. In order to achieve even the smallest things, we need to be willing to fail.
When you were only 10 months old, you weren’t able to walk properly. When you started to stand on your feet, you would constantly fall down.
When you were that small, you didn’t consider those falls as failures, and those around you specifically didn’t see it as failure.
It was just a process that you needed to go through.
When an interviewer asked Michael Jordan about being one of the best basketball players of all time, he talked about how other people only saw his success, and not his failures.
He mentioned that he had lost more than 9000 throws in the span of his professional career.
Our mindset regarding success or failure, and winners or losers is erroneous, and that is why we cannot achieve anything in life.
To be successful doesn’t mean that you are not going to fail. As you fail more and more, you will be surer of your inevitable success.
Those who do not give themselves the chance to fail are those who will never become winners. Losers are only those who give up after they fail.
So, you should not be afraid of failing. You should embrace it. The greatest teacher of all is failing.
After one fails, they have the opportunity to soar higher than ever before and seek horizons that were hidden from them before.
Remember the truth once spoken by Michael Jordan:
“I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can’t accept not trying.”
A BIG HUG!
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Important Note!
I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, more and more upvotes each others and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: More and More Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
ABOUT OUR LIST!!! WE NEED GROW THIS LIST! LET'S GO TOGETHER IN THIS COMMUNITY - RESTEEM!
Feel free if you want to be included in the list of contributors to this community. Just ask at the end of your comment.
Thanks All of You!!!!