Some people assign mystical power to affirmations, to the idea that if you say you will do something, then you surely will because of some law of the universe. This could be true or not, but believe me when I tell you that regardless of all the explanations different people have for it, words are very powerful.
This is the main reason why I like to speak in words of positivism in my life. I insist that those who I train do the same, because it's a matter of programming the mind to be positive and see opportunity when it presents itself.
If you believed that nothing will go right, then you will become the builder of that reality. If you believe the opposite, then you will have the energy to make the reality you want become true. It seems simple and that is probably why many people struggle to accept it.
When I think of a plan for example, I think of it as if it’s a done deal. When I share the plan with friends, or with a partner and I hear things like “Oh, that would be great if it happened like that” I always correct them - “No.. don’t say IF… don’t put that barrier there for yourself” and as annoying as it can be do be like that, I do it with good intentions.
Catch yourself when you speak in negativity, when you say negative generalizations specially - “Things never work my way” “That never works” “Nobody will care” etc, all these common phrases people use daily are part of the reason why they feel stuck where they are.
Do you want to change your outlook? Start there, start with your language and realize the power of your own words.
I would like to remind all of you what we are doing here. We are building a community with respect, reprogramming our minds with positivity, with the idea of helping one another.
I was aware of this and a few blogs ago we started doing a great initiative with each other, upvoting each others comments, and many new people joined because of the great attitude displayed.
However lately I’ve seen people have stopped doing this. I remember seeing 9,10,11 upvotes on comments (of course, not on the spam ones like: amazing, wow, i like, etc)
Because of this I ask you if you leave a comment, come back in a day and support others and you will see your kindness returned. On top of that for me that is an indication that people are understanding the message of helping each other, without worrying much about the SP. I’ve been upvoting very generously to everyone who puts effort, but I ask that you all do the same, ok?
Have a great week!
@chbartist