Many people are enjoying their lives, walking to their dreams, and clapping to their victories as you look around. And there you are, walking in the aisle, seeing how miserable your life is. You start comparing your life to theirs, and pressure builds.
Sometimes comparing our lives to others can put pressure on us. Pressure rattles us to make things in a rush. Slow progress in your life makes you unsatisfied. You begin to doubt yourself, your skills, and your capabilities that you hide. There is destruction to the pressure you created within your heart. You start to give up and close yourself in a box.
You never appreciate your little victories and torture your mind with guilt. It saddens your life, and later, everything around you is affected and loses interest. You are afraid of failure and rejection, which is why you never want to begin or take any chances. You start questioning your worth, rant about your flaws, and make things worse.
It happens when you let pressure enter your system. Destruction starts in your mind and works its way down to your heart. Every time you fall, you see everything as a total mess. And it will create a little chaos, and then a huge one. When your goal is destroyed, you start to question your existence. Desiring to reach the destination quickly, you will never appreciate the process along the way.
Hey, we have a different journey. Never compare your life to others. God chose us to live in this world for a specific reason. You don’t have to reflect on other victories. You have your mirror, and the most critical reflection is to see yourself and be yourself.
Do not think about how slow the process is. As long as you take the steps with all your heart, it makes all sense. There is destruction caused by the pressures you created, and if you let them through, they will drag you down. Learn to clap for others’ achievements, and don’t let it clap you so hard it hurts you back.
What if you positively turn pressure? Let this enemy inside you inspire you to overcome and strive for more. Remind yourself not to be too harsh, be kind, and love yourself. Instead of pressuring and rushing, why don’t you appreciate and trust every step you make? If you believe that you will make it, claim it! Enjoy your life along the journey, and focus on the goal. All those struggles are part of it; all those hardships are temporary.
The more you learn how to value everything, the more you can achieve anything. Do not be afraid to take the risk; all those risks are your stairs to get through it. Surround yourself in a healthy environment that gives you fulfillment. Surrender all your plans to God, trust him with all your heart, and let God lead the way.
Hive Blog No. 375
Date Published: May 12, 2026
About the Author:
She is a career-driven Filipina from the province of Zambales, paving the way for her career in blog content writing through sharing her experiences, reflections, and daily life happenings. She is currently an Internal Auditor at Puregold Price Club, Inc., and a Freelance Writer at Upwork Global, Inc., specializing in SEO Writing.
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