从大学开始，我就喜欢王菲唱的歌，比如她唱的《红豆》《执迷不悔》，歌词很美，歌声更是天籁之音。对待感情，王菲也非常果断，爱就浓烈，不爱了也不拖泥带水。不能说感情对她的人生观和信仰没有影响，一般开始信佛，可能也正是人生经历了许多，找不到出路，所以只能朝着宗教等方面发展，当然这只是我的揣测。我有位阿姨，因为得了富贵病，于是开始吃斋念佛，不一定所有人都是这样。通常我们只看到表面发生了什么，而看不到别人真实的内心到底经历过什么，换做其他人有她的经历，也不一定能够抗得过。
昨天看了一个讲解王菲和李亚鹏，以及王菲和谢霆锋之间，关于蝴蝶的故事。李亚鹏骗王菲说要送给她一个大钻戒，于是把她骗到了一个大型活动现场，为了制造气氛，活动当天，把许多的蝴蝶和大钻戒关在一个盒子里，但是李亚鹏磨磨唧唧，开盒太晚，等到开盒的时候，蝴蝶全部死了。即使王菲不是一个信佛的人，这种“残像”也很难不让人心生怜悯。王菲一个一个蝴蝶捡起来，据说在这次活动结束后的一个月左右的时间里，王菲就离婚了，夫妻齐心协力捞金本不是什么坏事，但是他却完全不了解王菲。
李亚鹏在当年也算是奶油小生，演的角色都挺火爆的，虽然长相并不在我的审美点上，但是却也不得不承认他作为演员，还是非常幸运的。做生意，我也没很成功过，不过如果需要投钱，那就一定要谨慎了，都说做生意哪里没有风险啊，这句话是用来骗傻子的。不可控的风险，毫无疑问会成为致命伤，有多少钱都会亏不完。近期李亚鹏的现妻传出来的新闻即是他们需要搬到更小的地方去住，因为没有钱支撑他们。虽然有奋斗精神是好事，但有时候更长久的生意，一般都是创始人从最初就深耕底层干起来的。
这里我想表达的意思是李亚鹏没有很好的了解自己，也没有很好的了解王菲。相顾无言，估计只能惟有泪千行了。我依稀还记得以前的一个采访里，王菲和李亚鹏结婚的时候，家里买了许多锅碗瓢盆，但后来结果是很少用过。一个缺少烟火气的家，如果双方都曾幻想过美好的家庭氛围，但却没有一个人愿意去洗手做羹汤，那最后走到分崩离析，也并不是什么很奇怪的事情。至少我们看到了谢霆锋在厨艺这条路上一直在进步，就我记得的就有《锋味》这个节目，这样的创业模式，我想谢霆锋肯定也不会亏钱。
当45岁的谢霆锋在演唱会唱《玉蝴蝶》的时候，台下的王菲翩翩起舞，这画面真美好。在真实的生活中，有人陪你柴米油盐，在精神的世界里，有人在天空中放了千万只的“纸蝴蝶”，没有比这样的双层契合，更美好的神仙眷侣了。很欣慰，我爱的歌后找到了自己最终的归属，虽然现在说最终还太早，但是我宁愿相信这就是最终，终并不是结尾，终代表的不是长度，而是宽度，是我们最终要寻找的终极答案，是有你有我、相知相守的每一天，这样的日子会持续多久，并未可知，但每一天都是恩赐。
《玉蝴蝶》的歌词太美，附在帖子最后，供大家欣赏：
主歌部分
“如何看你也是树荫，如何叫你会有共震
灵魂化作法语日语，同样也是灵魂
如何叫你最贴切合衬，如何叫你你会更兴奋
连名带姓会更接近你，还是更陌生
要是完全忘了姓氏，也没有本身的名字
总记得神情和语气，无字暗语，你也心中有知”
副歌部分
“我叫你玉蝴蝶，你说这声音可像你
恋生花也是你，风之纱也是你
怎称呼也在这个世界寻获你
你哪里是蝴蝶，然而飞不飞一样美
夫斯基也像你，早优生更像你
这称呼配合你，才回肠和荡气，改得多么入戏”
桥段部分
“如何拍摄你也入胜，如何叫你会更动听
长城变作世界名胜，同样也是长城
如何叫你会引致幻听，如何叫你你最有反应
连名带姓会怪我任性，还是太伪正经”
结尾部分
“你要养分和露水，在盘内小心灌溉
其实你是盘盆栽不要紧，是人是物仍然维护你
代号亦是任我改”
English translation by AI for someone who is interested in my post but from other countries:
Since university, I’ve been fond of the songs sung by Wang Fei, such as "Red Bean" and "Obsessive Love," whose lyrics are beautiful, and her voice is nothing short of heavenly. Wang Fei is very decisive when it comes to love—she loves intensely, and when she no longer loves, she moves on without any hesitation. It can't be said that her view on life and faith hasn't been influenced by her relationships. Typically, when people start to believe in Buddhism, it’s after experiencing many challenges and finding no way out, so they turn to religion and similar paths. Of course, this is just my guess. I have an aunt who, after getting sick from "rich man's disease," started eating vegetarian and reciting Buddhist scriptures, though not everyone follows this path. We usually only see what happens on the surface, but we can’t truly know what others have experienced internally. If others had her experiences, they might not have been able to endure it.
Yesterday, I watched a video discussing the story of Wang Fei, Li Yapeng, and Nicholas Tse, about the butterfly story. Li Yapeng lied to Wang Fei, saying he would give her a big diamond ring, so he tricked her into coming to a large event. To set the mood for the occasion, he locked many butterflies and the big diamond ring in a box. But Li Yapeng delayed opening the box, and by the time he finally opened it, all the butterflies had died. Even though Wang Fei isn’t a Buddhist, this "afterimage" is hard not to evoke sympathy. Wang Fei picked up each butterfly one by one. It’s said that about a month after this event, Wang Fei divorced him. Working together as a couple to make money isn't necessarily a bad thing, but he completely misunderstood Wang Fei.
At the time, Li Yapeng was considered a popular pretty boy, and the roles he played were quite successful. Although his appearance doesn’t fit my personal aesthetic, I have to admit that he was very fortunate as an actor. As for business, I haven’t been very successful either, but if you need to invest money, it’s essential to be cautious. They say there's no risk in business, but that's a lie to deceive the naive. Uncontrollable risks will undoubtedly become fatal wounds, and no matter how much money you have, it will be lost. Recently, there have been news reports that Li Yapeng's current wife said they need to move to a smaller place because they no longer have the money to support themselves. Having a fighting spirit is good, but long-term businesses are often those where the founders start from the bottom and grow with time.
What I want to express here is that Li Yapeng didn’t understand himself well, nor did he understand Wang Fei. The only thing left is probably just tears, no words. I vaguely remember an interview where Wang Fei and Li Yapeng, when they got married, bought many pots, bowls, and plates for their home, but they were rarely used. A home lacking warmth and daily life—if both parties once fantasized about a beautiful family atmosphere, but neither was willing to wash the dishes or cook, then the marriage breaking down in the end isn’t that strange. At least, we can see that Nicholas Tse has been improving in his cooking skills. I remember his show "Chef Nic", and with such an entrepreneurial model, I’m sure Nicholas Tse won’t lose money.
When Nicholas Tse, at 45, sang "Jade Butterfly" at a concert, and Wang Fei danced gracefully beneath the stage, it was such a beautiful sight. In real life, someone shares the mundane moments of cooking and daily life with you, and in the spiritual world, someone is releasing millions of "paper butterflies" into the sky. There is no greater match than this kind of double-layered connection, no more beautiful a couple than one that transcends both the earthly and spiritual realms. I’m happy that the singer I love, Wang Fei, has finally found her true place. Though it’s still too early to say it’s final, I’d like to believe that this is the end. "Final" doesn’t mean the end; it’s not about length but width. It represents the ultimate answer we are looking for: the everyday we share together, with you and me, in mutual understanding and commitment. How long this will last, we don’t know, but every day of it is a gift.
Verse 1:
"How to look at you, you’re always like a tree shade,
How to call you, you would resonate with it,
Your soul turns into French or Japanese, it’s still a soul,
How to call you most fittingly, how to call you so you would be more excited,
Even with your full name, would it bring you closer, or make it more unfamiliar?
If I completely forget your surname, or your original name,
I only remember the expression and tone, the unspoken language, you know it deep inside."
Chorus:
"I call you Jade Butterfly, you say this sound sounds like you,
The fragrance of flowers is you, the wind's silk is also you,
No matter what I call you, in this world, I have found you,
You are no butterfly, yet whether you fly or not, you’re still beautiful,
Fuski also looks like you, and early-life looks more like you,
This name matches you, it stirs my heart, makes me so moved, the way it fits is so perfect."
Bridge:
"How to capture you in a photograph, how to call you, it would sound even more beautiful,
The Great Wall turns into a world-famous sight, but it’s still the Great Wall,
How to call you, it would cause hallucinations,
How to call you, you would respond with the best reaction,
Even with your full name, would you think I'm being stubborn, or too hypocritically serious?"
Outro:
"You need nutrients and dew, carefully watered in the pot,
In truth, you're a potted plant, but it doesn’t matter,
Whether you are a person or a thing, I’ll still protect you,
Even the code is mine to change."
The lyrics are a blend of metaphor and imagery, blending themes of love, identity, and the transcendence of physical boundaries. The song 玉蝴蝶 evokes the ethereal beauty of love, where the beloved is not just a person but an essence that permeates different forms of life. It celebrates the unique and deep connection with someone who is both ever-changing and timeless, much like a butterfly that flutters with grace and meaning.
It’s a beautiful, poetic piece reflecting the bittersweet yet hopeful nature of relationships and understanding.
