He was very charismatic, he was always there, his words always did something magical to those listening to him, he was just like a movie and he sounded like a song, when u go out with him for a date he always pays the bill, his over generous, perfectly created, mr write, never wrong, over protective and loved by people.
Oh well
When u look beyond all those descriptions u get a narcissist, yh i fell in love with a narcissist.
I was just 20 when i had my first serious boyfriend,he was just perfect, I'll always thank God for giving me some one like him(never knowing that God didn't know a thing about him) he was soft spoken, calm, nice and had a very cute smile and his looks mead ever girl go gaga.
I was more like oh wow, i finally found the one, i finally found someone who was gonna make me complete, and to show me he was serious, he took me over to his home to meet his family after 5 years of dating, he now introduced me to all his family after evening meal that Sunday night telling them that he will marry me,
Oh wow it was a dream come true for me, i felt relief and happy, that was when he looked me back in the eye and said it was just a joke (ye it was very embarrassing) and than he kissed me and i just smiled to cover up the shame,
Since 20 years i started dating Kelvin, he always told me he was going to marry me, that was why when he said it now i felt like i have finally arrived my destination, buh wait didn't he know that when he said that kinda thing to his family I'll be excited, i just kept on hoping that one day he was just gonna mean those words, buh now the one i love just mead a foll out of me
Kelvin was just there, his a 10 buh he still leaves at home with his parents,(probably eating mama thank you) since after he graduated from school his had 9 interviews buh he still can't get a job, he always had text messages from other 12 girls i didn't know (yh he never let me have his phone) he has 3 best friend that dnt even know my name since 5 years we've been dating, buh i neglected all those things cause i was in love with him (a narcissist)
I just had alot of questions to ask kelvin, alot of unspoken words that needs to be heard by him, and yes i voiced them out, when we walked out of there house, i stoped him in front of there and when he said he has to take me home and that he has alot of things to do and he doesn't have time for my childish character i couldn't tack no for an answer, he has to hear me out now or never.
I angrly asked him why he did what he did there and he outrightly told me he wasn't ready for marriage and that he was just joking (haii see me see whahala) buh kelvin u promised you will marry me in Just the first year of our relationship and this is the fifth year (that was just the only words i manage to alter as tears stream down my eyes) he payed little attention to my tears and just said he was sorry and that he thinks we should have a break in our relationship or we should just separate for now that he needs some break.
I simply told him we can't continue like that and that its better we just break up, he said there are many fishes in the sea and that he can easily find one(wow i can't believe this, after 5 years this is just what am hearing from him) he just stormed out angryly and that was the last time i heard from kelvin,
I just realized that when u see red flags in most relationships u have to leave it no matter how hard it is for u, i could have just been more careful on how he spoke to me, cause many times we fought and didn't communicate for months and u just thought that was what i should appreciate, maybe i was just holding on to what i thought he was, now things have gotten worse and am seeing a version of him i ignored for years, i know i did the right thing, i can't continue being in a relationship with a narcissist,
A month later i found out that i was pregnant for kelvin, i tried reaching out buh he isn't responding, he literally blocked me in every social media platforms to, the big question now comes.
Should i keep the innocent child or abort it?
That's what happens when u fall in love with a narcissist.
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