Being Alone Doesn’t Mean Being Lonely

Actually, I am an introvert, a shy kind of person, and also boring, but see everyone has their own friends, no matter what type they are, and I too have some friends and my family too, for all of whom I am thankful from the bottom of my heart. Look, everyone has a comfort but my comfort is where my room is. Earlier, I used to live with my younger brother, but I have my own room, and I feel much more comfortable there, it is not that I didn't live with my brother, but look, some foundations are necessary, and sometimes we need privacy. But now I am completely free in my room, you see, when you live in a room, then you have to adjust according to both of you, if one person is sleeping then you have to switch off the lights, if someone is feeling hot then you have to switch on the fan, you have to make so many adjustments and sometimes you cannot even talk to your friends openly. Everyone is different; some people like to be with people and like crowded places, but some people like quiet places and I like quiet places a lot.

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That is why I stay away from parties and such noisy places, and I feel comfortable in all these places. Look, I don't think that I am the only person in this universe who feels like this, many people have my type of personality but everyone has some compulsion to go there, sometimes you have to go with your friends or sometimes with family members, but to be honest, comfort comes only after going to your own room, no matter where I go, I feel comfortable only there, even if I feel comfortable with only a few people, you cannot share your heart's feelings with everyone, it is possible that you may not even do it, it depends on what the situation is at your home. Some people are like this who share everything with their family members, this is good as well as bad in a way, good because your parents know where you are and with whom you are, and they know everything, maybe they come to know many times where you will be and with whom you will be without you telling them.

Look, everyone must be comfortable without asking anything and they deal with things accordingly, some people, in general, feel very comfortable in their own home because when you wear your favorite clothes there and roam around frilly, there is no one to stop you or say anything because when you go out, many times you have to do such things which you do not want to do, but you come to your home and especially in your room and do such things which you can do only there, you cannot do anywhere else outside. See, when you are not comfortable with something, then you automatically feel it, and the environment also becomes very strange, and if you are comfortable, then a different kind of environment is created.

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Some people around us do not feel uncomfortable anywhere, and they adjust to that environment, but I am not one of them. I enjoy my room a lot, and I enjoy my company, and I keep doing something or the other. Sometimes even my family members say that I don't know what I do in my room the whole day, but I like to stay alone, so what is my fault in this? It may be my nature, or it may be that such a change has come in me with time. I don't know the reason, whatever it is, I like it like this. Look, it is often said that introverts are most comfortable with their few friends and share everything with them there and this is true as well. I become extroverted in front of my friends, and there are some relatives too, in relation to whom I become like this, but when I go near some people, I don't feel like talking to them at all. I don't know why, maybe this happens. I also try to know the reason for this. But in the end, I don't get any answer, so I skip this thing.