Kindness as a life philosophy comes in a bundle

Axiom 1
Understand that kindness something that you do for yourself it is not something you do to get praise from others,. Everyone likes a little recognition now and then. I mean we all expect that there to be something for us after a hard work. We are programmed that way. Because there is a saying that “Actions yield rewards or punishments”. But don’t you think that is not how kindness should be? Because kindness should be done with a pure heart and no expectations behind it. true kindness is done without the thought of anything else. Kindness is doing good to do well. Not doing good for the sake of something in return
Axiom 2
Always feel good. By this I mean be optimistic and friendly. When you feel these feelings, it is almost like impossible not to be kind. Just as I said before, “kindness comes from within”, and these feelings are kind of fuel that fuels kindness, of course many other feelings that promote kindness, but with these feelings in your heart, being kind comes natural. How are you supposed to be kind if you don’t appreciate what you have?, if you judge every people at first glance and are not friendly? Well, just know that you can't. You can't be kind if you don’t make yourself kind and unfortunately, because you can only give what you have, sure you know that “working towards something good that will make you a better person “, it is the most rewarding thing in itself.
Axiom 3
This is quite easy, be kind to yourself. I mean it seems easy enough. Besides, what can be hard about being kind to one self, but do you know that it turns out not to be that easy. Many people nowadays judge themselves pretty badly. Do you know that the person that is kind to everyone around her might just be cruel to him/herself. This might be attributed to the person not liking things about themselves, and of course this is true, to an extent. It is really important to have what I call self-love. Because if you don’t love yourself, you can't be happy no matter what. I know, it might not make that much sense. You might be asking yourself, that "How can I not know who I am?" I mean of course you know yourself!. But you don’t know yourself as a person that you can love. Everybody has things they hate about themselves, trust me. But overcoming these things gives you confidence to go out into the world to meet new people and try new things! Altogether, this enables you to learn more about yourself and promotes self-love. It is the respect for all the things you have done that enables you to be kind to yourself and to others around you.
Axiom 4
Be kind to everyone around you, not just those you think are in need of it. Life is complex. Everyone lives and experiences different things and things differently. Being kind to people who are feeling down makes sense, right?, I bet you it does, They are in need of help and you can see it easily. But what if it wasn’t as obvious? As I said, life is complex and you simply cannot know what everyone is going through. Believe me sometimes the people with the brightest smiles are going through the hardest times. Just because you can't see their hustle to survive does not mean it is not there. If you are going to be kind, you should be kind to everyone and everything around you “Kindness as a life philosophy comes in a bundle”. You have to do all of these things and more if you want to be a true kind person.