Happiness is not a standard we form from distinguishing this and that. We cannot make other people the measure.
Don't let certain sizes in society make you unhappy.
Of course we are happy if there is a small family that looks happy. Their faces are filled with light and laughter. That proves that they can be happy in their own way.
Then there are people who seem to have a lot of everything, but they are always restless as if they always want to find what they are looking for and never enough.
This life cannot be repeated after someone dies. So don't forget to accept those around us.
Being creative is important. That will help us change something to enjoy what the universe gives us the way we like it.