It is not every young lady that is carried away by what the eyes can see. Yes! Most are moved by Money and material things, but at the same time, most of them cherish how 'Real' you are.
Don't present what you are not before a lady in order to Win her heart either as a life partner or a date. Let her know who you are, what you can do, and your real self. Don't take her to a hotel when you're managing one room, let her know what you can afford.
Not every young lady is interested in your Car, House or even taking her round the world.
She wants to know how Trustful, Faithful, and Real you are. Most of them wanna share in your Sadness and happiness, so the pictures you present to them matters a lot.
You work as a security in a bank but you told her you're a 'bank staff', when she start making demands based on your position as a "Bank staff" you say she is too materialistic. Haba!
Gentle man, any girl who doesn't love you in one room, will not love you in two bedroom flat. So why pretend to be what you are not?
....even if she loves you because of that, time will tell. Every lady wants Her man to be Real.
If she can cope, she will be with you, if she can't, then she will take a walk. Its not a do or die affair.
Truth is.... When a lady discovers how fake and artificial you are...She will hate you more. If you pretend and fake your life to get her, when she discovers, she will teach you how to pretend and take a walk successfully without a sign.
Let her know who you are now!
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